Coach Paul
Coach Paul

@CoachPauI

9 Tweets 2 reads Dec 31, 2022
In less than 3 days:
Spent Christmas alone, went thru heartbreak, house broken into, no water due to leakage, power outage, missed biz opps, car problems
& obviously I’m coming out on top fucking HARD
If you’re ever feeling hopeless, here’s what you need to do:
1) don’t get stuck in a constant stage of processing, introspecting, etc
2) understand that internalizing things and then taking it out on people ≠ stoicism
Gain clarity on what happened, and understand that all of these challenges you are facing are making you BETTER
Be grateful for that, truly
It’s all training your perseverance, awareness, stress tolerance, emotional stability, etc
These days > days of stagnancy & boredom
Facing these things and NOT feeling defeated builds the supreme confidence you need to go get what you deserve
Next?
If you can, know which phone calls to make
Who are you close with?
And out of these people: who’s business savvy, in a beautiful relationship, reliable?
Make those phone calls accordingly
Be direct and solution-based
When I made these phone calls…
I was speaking to people who have genuine love for me
They’ll be sorry to hear about what’s going on
Simply share gratitude and redirect the call
It’s always, “What’s next?”
Rinse and repeat, keep improvising on the go
The mission is to get on top then repay it all back
“It’s easier said than done!”
“Not everyone has those resources”
True..know what else is true?
When you actually want your well-being back?
More than you want to be a victim?
You WILL your way into making things happen
I’m not writing this as some hero
I’ve just been able to turn these heavy L’s into a stack of W’s by not moping around
I know guys still not over their ex, their failures, or inconveniences
You can either be set back for 2 hours or 2 months
99% of the time?
You have a choice
Made more $ than I lost out on
Way higher quality options than before with business, girls, lifestyle
Mind you, this is less than a week later
Remember,
“Healing” has nothing to do with hyper-awareness and everything to do with action
I’m blessed to have these people to call in my life, but it wasn’t always like this
If you’re down bad, with whatever it is, DM me and I’ll see if I can help

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