Ryan Holiday
Ryan Holiday

@RyanHoliday

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10 ways to create better habits in 2023:
1/ Think small
@jamesclear defines “atomic habits” as small habits that makes an enormous difference in your life.
Repetitive actions, he says, accumulate and add up in a big way over time.
Don’t promise you’re going to read more; instead, commit to reading one page per day.
2/ Lengthen your timeline
The one habit that makes all other habits possible is patience.
It always takes longer than you think it’s going to take. That’s Hofstader’s law.
If you can practice delayed gratification, you’re almost always going to be more successful.
3/ See everything as a challenge
Deciding what we want to do and making the right choices is exhausting. Handing the wheel over to someone else can narrow our focus.
That’s why we’re doing another Daily Stoic Challenge (nyn23.com).
4/ Do the important thing first
I don’t schedule calls or meetings in the morning. Instead, I write and get outside with my kids first thing.
By prioritizing these important things first, I have already won the day and everything else is extra from there.
5/ Set a bedtime
Philosopher and writer Arthur Schopenhauer said: “sleep is the source of all health and energy.”
We only have so much energy for our work, for our relationships, for ourselves.
If you want to be up and at ‘em in the morning in 2023, go to sleep.
6/ Say no to say yes
I have a memo signed by Harry S. Truman, shortly after he became president.
His secretary wrote to ask if they should start saying no to things with all the demands he had on his schedule.
“That is the correct response”, he wrote back.
7/ Discipline now, freedom later
The famous line from Musonius Rufus was that labor passes quickly but the fruit of labor endures.
When you’re on the fence about going for a long run or working on a big project, remind yourself: the labor will pass, and the rewards will last.
8/ Lay out your supplies
When I get to my desk in the morning, my 3 journals are sitting right there. If I want to skip the habit, I have to pick them up and move them.
You’ll be less likely to take the easy way out if it’s embarrassingly simple to do the thing you want to do.
9/ Create positive peer pressure
Goethe famously said: “Show me who you spend time with and I will show you who you are.”
@jamesclear says: “surround yourself with people who have the habits you want to have yourself. You’ll rise together.”
10/ Keep coming back
All of us have fallen short in the last year.
But it’s time, Marcus Aurelius says, to “revert at once to yourself, and don’t lose the rhythm more than you can help. You’ll have a better group of harmony if you keep on going back to it.”
That’s 10 ways to create better habits in 2023.
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