I was a shy person for 23 years, but now I can show you how to be confident in less than 3 minutes:
1. Everyone is human
Remember that the people you think are ‘cool’ are actually no different from you.
Everyone has their own problems, insecurities, and doubts
Stop thinking they’re better than you
Remember that the people you think are ‘cool’ are actually no different from you.
Everyone has their own problems, insecurities, and doubts
Stop thinking they’re better than you
2. Give yourself credit.
Stop being so hard on yourself
Remember all the good things you have done
Remember how far you’ve come
You’re doing great; just remind yourself of it more often
Stop being so hard on yourself
Remember all the good things you have done
Remember how far you’ve come
You’re doing great; just remind yourself of it more often
3. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations.
This is the best way to overcome shyness
Join a club, go to events and put yourself out there
These uncomfortable situations will soon become comfortable, and then you will become a confident person
This is the best way to overcome shyness
Join a club, go to events and put yourself out there
These uncomfortable situations will soon become comfortable, and then you will become a confident person
4. Get in shape and dress well.
The easiest way to become confident is to look good
If you don’t like your appearance, you will shy away from social settings
If you like your appearance, you will be proud and confident in public settings
The easiest way to become confident is to look good
If you don’t like your appearance, you will shy away from social settings
If you like your appearance, you will be proud and confident in public settings
5. Allow yourself to make mistakes.
As cheesy as it sounds, "Rome was not built in a day."
You’re allowed to make mistakes
This is how we learn and grow as humans
As cheesy as it sounds, "Rome was not built in a day."
You’re allowed to make mistakes
This is how we learn and grow as humans
6. Less planning, more action.
Too much planning can lead to overthinking and anxiety
Take action instead!
Also, the more times you do something, the more confident you will get
Too much planning can lead to overthinking and anxiety
Take action instead!
Also, the more times you do something, the more confident you will get
7. Believe in yourself.
Even if you don’t believe in yourself, you can trick your brain into believing
Before bed every night, say “I am a confident person” 10 times
It will be programmed into your subconscious, and you will trick yourself into becoming confident!
Even if you don’t believe in yourself, you can trick your brain into believing
Before bed every night, say “I am a confident person” 10 times
It will be programmed into your subconscious, and you will trick yourself into becoming confident!
8. Take risks.
I know it’s scary, but you need to take risks
If your dream looks too risky and scary - break it down into smaller parts
Then it won’t be as intimidating to pursue
I know it’s scary, but you need to take risks
If your dream looks too risky and scary - break it down into smaller parts
Then it won’t be as intimidating to pursue
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