THE NICE GUY DELUSION [Thread]
•The nice guy will rationalize spending hours upon hours with a woman who is not sexually available by giving into her frame of entitlement, and being mislead by his Savior Complex.
•The nice guy will rationalize spending hours upon hours with a woman who is not sexually available by giving into her frame of entitlement, and being mislead by his Savior Complex.
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•He was brought up to be a “gentleman” and mistakenly assumes that being a “gentleman” always being available to help women (without getting value in return) because it’s “the right thing to do” - regardless of how psychological energy or personal time it costs him.
His actions of wasting time and putting up with bullshit communicate volumes (to women who notice these subtle signals) about his worth.
It communicates that he doesn’t value his time, and thus women don’t really value him.
It communicates that he doesn’t value his time, and thus women don’t really value him.
The moment they get all of the value that they can from him, they’re gone. After all, the entire relationship was based on a one sided platonic providership.
The nice guy should learn three things immediately:
•(1) he doesn’t owe women anything,
•(1) he doesn’t owe women anything,
•(2) a woman has to be sexually available for her to even warrant his time (or at least allow for physical escalation to occur at a reasonable pace, so that it eventually does lead to sex within a reasonable time frame), and
•(3) to be worthy of a relationship, the woman has to reciprocate by providing substantial value of her own (other than just having a hole in between her legs; remember: women only value what they work for).
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