Young men who want to get married, here’s a few tips on finding the right partner:
1. Don’t try to find the right partner
Attract the right person by becoming the right person
Attract the right person by becoming the right person
2. Women want to be heard
When you try and fix her problems, she thinks you’re not listening to her
When you try and fix her problems, she thinks you’re not listening to her
3. Women want a man to be like a coconut…
Tough and rugged on the outside
Soft and sweet on the inside
They want to change you and bring out your soft side
Tough and rugged on the outside
Soft and sweet on the inside
They want to change you and bring out your soft side
4. She’ll test you to see if you compromise your values.
She wants to change you, but doesn’t actually want you to change (that much)
If you change and put her on a pedestal, she will get bored and lose interest
She wants to change you, but doesn’t actually want you to change (that much)
If you change and put her on a pedestal, she will get bored and lose interest
5. Don’t put her on a pedestal
When you put her on a pedestal, she can only look down on you
And it’s your fault
When you put her on a pedestal, she can only look down on you
And it’s your fault
6. Be decisive
Know what you want
She’s attracted to a man who has a strong sense of purpose and leadership
Know what you want
She’s attracted to a man who has a strong sense of purpose and leadership
7. Take care of your Health
Women love V-shaped muscular upper bodies (not too muscular):
•Arms
•Back
•Chest
These features indicate high testosterone (good genes)
Women love V-shaped muscular upper bodies (not too muscular):
•Arms
•Back
•Chest
These features indicate high testosterone (good genes)
8. Get your finances in order
Having money will fix all your money problems (most problems)
Having money will fix all your money problems (most problems)
9. Women prove loyalty by staying with you when you’re broke.
She is investing in your future
She thinks you will be able to support her long term
She is investing in your future
She thinks you will be able to support her long term
10. Top 3 mistakes men make (according to women)
•Minimize the importance of her feelings
•Listens then blames her for bringing him down
•Listens, the says nothing (stonewalling)
•Minimize the importance of her feelings
•Listens then blames her for bringing him down
•Listens, the says nothing (stonewalling)
11. Women play “hard to get” because they don’t want to be perceived as “easy”
You need to find a balance between fun pursuit and not appearing too needy
You need to find a balance between fun pursuit and not appearing too needy
12. You look for similar foundational values
Similar ethics and morals are essential for a strong relationship
Similar ethics and morals are essential for a strong relationship
13. You have a common vision for the future
Your goals are aligned
And you are both working towards them
Your goals are aligned
And you are both working towards them
14. You don’t seek approval
It’s not your partners job to make you happy
That’s your responsibility
Your partner should boost your happiness, not be the source
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on each other
It’s not your partners job to make you happy
That’s your responsibility
Your partner should boost your happiness, not be the source
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on each other
15. Men want respect
Women want to be desired and appreciated
Women want to be desired and appreciated
16. Focus on communication
Be direct.. Your partner can’t read your mind
You need to be:
•Honest
•Vulnerable
•Don’t play games
•Don’t be dishonest
Be direct.. Your partner can’t read your mind
You need to be:
•Honest
•Vulnerable
•Don’t play games
•Don’t be dishonest
17. Any problems you don’t address in a relationship will resurface after marriage…
Don’t pretend to be perfect
Vulnerability leads to growth
Don’t pretend to be perfect
Vulnerability leads to growth
18. Don’t try to change your partner
Instead, focus on improving yourself
Instead, focus on improving yourself
19. If you have to ask if you’re in the friend zone, you’re in the friend zone
A women will make her intentions clear when she’s attracted to you.
A women will make her intentions clear when she’s attracted to you.
20. She looks for health and future earning potential.
Focus on those, and she will come to you
Focus on those, and she will come to you
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