Sahil Bloom
Sahil Bloom

@SahilBloom

14 Tweets 7 reads Jan 26, 2023
The days are long but the years are short.
I’m in the top left with my son—but the bottom left with my dad.
The collision of timelines is hard to grasp.
New and Old—but all destined for the same fate.
When you love someone, tell them.
The opening scene of Up shared a similar message.
Sad, but deeply inspiring.
Remember my chart of our time:
Family time is limited—cherish it.
Friend time is limited—prioritize real ones.
Partner time is significant—never settle.
Children time is precious—be present.
Coworker time is significant—find energy.
Alone time is highest—love yourself.
My friend @waitbutwhy wrote about "Parent Time" in a New York Times op-ed.
In classic fashion, he produced a striking visualization to capture the sentiment.
It brings one takeaway to life: Our time with our loved ones is limited and precious.
We spend most of our lives playing a game: Everything we do is in anticipation of a future.
When it comes, we just reset to the next one:
• “I can’t wait until I’m 18 so I can [X].”
• “I can’t wait until I’m 25 so I can [Y]."
• “I can’t wait until I’m 45 so I can [Z]."
It’s natural, but it’s a dangerous game—one that we will lose...eventually.
Time is our most precious asset and the present is all that’s guaranteed.
Spend it wisely, with those you love, in ways you’ll never regret.
I wrote about this in a piece entitled It’s Later Than You Think. It remains one of my most shared pieces of writing.
I’m biased, but it’s worth 5 minutes of your time.
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There are no “right” answers here.
No one can tell you WHAT to think about time. I’m just trying to provide insights on HOW to think about time.
All of life's most important journeys start with asking the right questions.
This is a good place to start.
Time has a dynamic quality—not all time is created equal.
In Ancient Greece, there were two words for time:
• Chronos: Chronological, sequential time
• Kairos: Critical, opportune time
Kairos recognizes that certain moments carry outsized significance in our lives.
This is my thread with 6 simple graphs on how we spend our time over the course of our lives.
6 graphs that everyone needs to see:
You never know when it will be the last time you see someone.
When you think something nice about someone, let them know.
It's a shame that we wait until a funeral to say all of the nice things we thought about them.
“Give them their flowers” while they can smell them.
Last summer I was on a walk with my newborn and an older man approached me.
He said:
“I remember standing here with my newborn daughter. An old man came up to me and said ‘It goes by fast, cherish it.’ Well, my daughter is 45 now. It goes by fast, cherish it.”
Hit me hard.
A deeply moving piece I read as I thought about time and being a father.
The article is a must read:

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