Iâm in the top left with my sonâbut the bottom left with my dad.
The collision of timelines is hard to grasp.
New and Oldâbut all destined for the same fate.
When you love someone, tell them.
The collision of timelines is hard to grasp.
New and Oldâbut all destined for the same fate.
When you love someone, tell them.
My friend @waitbutwhy wrote about "Parent Time" in a New York Times op-ed.
In classic fashion, he produced a striking visualization to capture the sentiment.
It brings one takeaway to life: Our time with our loved ones is limited and precious.
In classic fashion, he produced a striking visualization to capture the sentiment.
It brings one takeaway to life: Our time with our loved ones is limited and precious.
We spend most of our lives playing a game: Everything we do is in anticipation of a future.
When it comes, we just reset to the next one:
⢠âI canât wait until Iâm 18 so I can [X].â
⢠âI canât wait until Iâm 25 so I can [Y]."
⢠âI canât wait until Iâm 45 so I can [Z]."
When it comes, we just reset to the next one:
⢠âI canât wait until Iâm 18 so I can [X].â
⢠âI canât wait until Iâm 25 so I can [Y]."
⢠âI canât wait until Iâm 45 so I can [Z]."
Itâs natural, but itâs a dangerous gameâone that we will lose...eventually.
Time is our most precious asset and the present is all thatâs guaranteed.
Spend it wisely, with those you love, in ways youâll never regret.
Time is our most precious asset and the present is all thatâs guaranteed.
Spend it wisely, with those you love, in ways youâll never regret.
I wrote about this in a piece entitled Itâs Later Than You Think. It remains one of my most shared pieces of writing.
Iâm biased, but itâs worth 5 minutes of your time.
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Iâm biased, but itâs worth 5 minutes of your time.
Follow me @SahilBloom and join 225K+ others who subscribe for more writing like this. sahilbloom.com
There are no ârightâ answers here.
No one can tell you WHAT to think about time. Iâm just trying to provide insights on HOW to think about time.
All of life's most important journeys start with asking the right questions.
This is a good place to start.
No one can tell you WHAT to think about time. Iâm just trying to provide insights on HOW to think about time.
All of life's most important journeys start with asking the right questions.
This is a good place to start.
Time has a dynamic qualityânot all time is created equal.
In Ancient Greece, there were two words for time:
⢠Chronos: Chronological, sequential time
⢠Kairos: Critical, opportune time
Kairos recognizes that certain moments carry outsized significance in our lives.
In Ancient Greece, there were two words for time:
⢠Chronos: Chronological, sequential time
⢠Kairos: Critical, opportune time
Kairos recognizes that certain moments carry outsized significance in our lives.
This is my thread with 6 simple graphs on how we spend our time over the course of our lives.
6 graphs that everyone needs to see:
6 graphs that everyone needs to see:
You never know when it will be the last time you see someone.
When you think something nice about someone, let them know.
It's a shame that we wait until a funeral to say all of the nice things we thought about them.
âGive them their flowersâ while they can smell them.
When you think something nice about someone, let them know.
It's a shame that we wait until a funeral to say all of the nice things we thought about them.
âGive them their flowersâ while they can smell them.
Last summer I was on a walk with my newborn and an older man approached me.
He said:
âI remember standing here with my newborn daughter. An old man came up to me and said âIt goes by fast, cherish it.â Well, my daughter is 45 now. It goes by fast, cherish it.â
Hit me hard.
He said:
âI remember standing here with my newborn daughter. An old man came up to me and said âIt goes by fast, cherish it.â Well, my daughter is 45 now. It goes by fast, cherish it.â
Hit me hard.
A deeply moving piece I read as I thought about time and being a father.
The article is a must read:
The article is a must read:
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