1. CONFIDENCE IN YOUR ABILITY
Don't let your nerves get the best of you. Confidence is key when approaching someone new.
It shows that you are comfortable in your own skin and self-assured.
Don't let your nerves get the best of you. Confidence is key when approaching someone new.
It shows that you are comfortable in your own skin and self-assured.
It also helps to project a positive demeanor, making the other person more likely to respond positively.
2. STRONG OPENER
Make sure to have a good opening line or conversation starter prepared. It doesn't have to be anything elaborate, just something to break the ice.
It could be a simple comment about something around you, or a question about something you have in common.
Make sure to have a good opening line or conversation starter prepared. It doesn't have to be anything elaborate, just something to break the ice.
It could be a simple comment about something around you, or a question about something you have in common.
Keep in mind that the opening line is just a way to initiate the conversation and doesn't have to be perfect.
Something as simple as: that dress looks amazing on you.
(If you compliment make sure it's genuine like this.)
Something as simple as: that dress looks amazing on you.
(If you compliment make sure it's genuine like this.)
3. DO'S
- Approach the person in a friendly and non-threatening manner.
- Smile and make eye contact.
- Never force attraction
- Tell her you have to meet a friend for (x) in a few minutes
- Flirt, tease, banter, and push pull verbally
- Approach the person in a friendly and non-threatening manner.
- Smile and make eye contact.
- Never force attraction
- Tell her you have to meet a friend for (x) in a few minutes
- Flirt, tease, banter, and push pull verbally
4. DON'TS
- Talking too fast
- Nervous movements
- Go right for the number
- Weird, cheesy lines
- Act like she's above you
- Talking too fast
- Nervous movements
- Go right for the number
- Weird, cheesy lines
- Act like she's above you
5. BUILD TRUST / RAPPORT
Take the time to listen actively when the person speaks, and show genuine interest in what they have to say.
People appreciate it when they feel heard and understood, and it helps to build a connection.
Take the time to listen actively when the person speaks, and show genuine interest in what they have to say.
People appreciate it when they feel heard and understood, and it helps to build a connection.
People's favorite topics are themselves. When you remember little details you can also use them as an opener over text after you get the number.
6. AVOID
Keep the conversation light and fun, avoid heavy or controversial topics.
Especially when meeting someone for the first time, it's best to stick to light and neutral topics such as hobbies, interests, or current events.
Keep the conversation light and fun, avoid heavy or controversial topics.
Especially when meeting someone for the first time, it's best to stick to light and neutral topics such as hobbies, interests, or current events.
The last thing someone wants to talk about right when meeting someone is religion, politics, views on feminism, and more.
It's irrelevant because a woman will mold herself to please the man she loves so all of this will change anyways.
It's irrelevant because a woman will mold herself to please the man she loves so all of this will change anyways.
7. "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND"
If she tells you she has a boyfriend when you go for the number close, then simply make a joking tease like:
"break up with him (;" then laugh and say you're kidding and politely excuse yourself.
If she tells you she has a boyfriend when you go for the number close, then simply make a joking tease like:
"break up with him (;" then laugh and say you're kidding and politely excuse yourself.
This is her politely declining you, and no need to waste time.
8. CLOSE
End the conversation by exchanging contact information or by suggesting to meet again.
If the conversation has gone well and you feel that there is potential for a future interaction, it's a good idea to exchange contact information or suggest meeting again.
End the conversation by exchanging contact information or by suggesting to meet again.
If the conversation has gone well and you feel that there is potential for a future interaction, it's a good idea to exchange contact information or suggest meeting again.
When she's putting her number into your phone, don't sit there awkwardly. Talk to her and make her feel like you weren't just trying to get her number this whole time.
Talk to her for another minute or so, and then leave telling her you have to meet a friend for dinner.
Talk to her for another minute or so, and then leave telling her you have to meet a friend for dinner.
That's a wrap!
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