How To Approach Women With Confidence.
The easiest way possible.
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The easiest way possible.
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Approaching women can be daunting for a lot of men, and many suffer from approach anxiety.
If this is you, this thread will break down the best way to ease into approaching women without fear.
We'll go over how to get into a flow state so that your approaches can be effortless.
If this is you, this thread will break down the best way to ease into approaching women without fear.
We'll go over how to get into a flow state so that your approaches can be effortless.
1/ Change your mindset
Give yourself permission to start small/slow.
Most guys don't go from 0 to pulling a woman home on their first approach.
They stumble & slowly pick up steam through the day.
Don't think "how can I get her number," think "how can I take the first step."
Give yourself permission to start small/slow.
Most guys don't go from 0 to pulling a woman home on their first approach.
They stumble & slowly pick up steam through the day.
Don't think "how can I get her number," think "how can I take the first step."
When youβre out meeting women,Β you can expect each approach to be a bit easier, smoother, and more successful than the one before.
So all you have to do get the first few over with, and let the momentum carry you forward knowing that the future ones will be better.
Here's how:
So all you have to do get the first few over with, and let the momentum carry you forward knowing that the future ones will be better.
Here's how:
2/ Start slow. Hold eye contact & smile
When you go to the gym, you don't immediately go into heavy lifts. You warm up first.
The same is true for approaching.
When you go out, start with this warm up: simply walk around, hold strong eye contact with everyone, and smile.
When you go to the gym, you don't immediately go into heavy lifts. You warm up first.
The same is true for approaching.
When you go out, start with this warm up: simply walk around, hold strong eye contact with everyone, and smile.
You will feel an urge to look away, especially from beautiful women. DON'T.
Instead, just hold eye contact & smile.
Most people will smile back and when you see that people aren't scary/dangerous, your mind will ease up.
This will allow you to mentally relax for the next step.
Instead, just hold eye contact & smile.
Most people will smile back and when you see that people aren't scary/dangerous, your mind will ease up.
This will allow you to mentally relax for the next step.
3/ Use the 3 second rule
When you see a woman you want to approach, count down from 3 in your mind & start moving your feet in her direction immediately.
You want to start moving ASAP because action is what short-circuits overthinking.
Don't worry about what you will say yet.
When you see a woman you want to approach, count down from 3 in your mind & start moving your feet in her direction immediately.
You want to start moving ASAP because action is what short-circuits overthinking.
Don't worry about what you will say yet.
4/ Give a compliment
The issue most guys have is that they don't know what to say to approach.
So, let's make it as simple as possible. There is no need to reinvent the wheel every time.
Just go up and give a brief "I like your shoes!" or "I like your style!"
The issue most guys have is that they don't know what to say to approach.
So, let's make it as simple as possible. There is no need to reinvent the wheel every time.
Just go up and give a brief "I like your shoes!" or "I like your style!"
This is much easier than starting a full on conversation.
Super low barrier & not much hassle.
Again, don't put too much pressure on yourself.
Give yourself permission to eject after 5 seconds.
If it develops into a convo, great! If not, say "have a great day" and move on.
Super low barrier & not much hassle.
Again, don't put too much pressure on yourself.
Give yourself permission to eject after 5 seconds.
If it develops into a convo, great! If not, say "have a great day" and move on.
5/ After approaching a few girls with just compliments, you can try moving the conversation along.
The easiest way is to ask the basics:
- Are you from here?
- What do you do for fun?
- What do you do for work?
These aren't the most interesting topics, but they're the easiest.
The easiest way is to ask the basics:
- Are you from here?
- What do you do for fun?
- What do you do for work?
These aren't the most interesting topics, but they're the easiest.
Try riffing off of what she answers in order to make it a more interesting conversation:
You: Where are you from?
Her: NYC
You: Really? I used to go there all the time on business. You definitely look like a Brooklyn girl.
You: Where are you from?
Her: NYC
You: Really? I used to go there all the time on business. You definitely look like a Brooklyn girl.
Sometimes, the questions wont lead to anything interesting.
Thatβs okay. Your goal is just to keep the conversation going as long as you can.
Try to extend the convo by 1 or 2 more min each time.
By your 10th approach, you'll be having great convos that lead to numbers!
Thatβs okay. Your goal is just to keep the conversation going as long as you can.
Try to extend the convo by 1 or 2 more min each time.
By your 10th approach, you'll be having great convos that lead to numbers!
Tl;dr - To approach women confidently:
1/ Change your mindset
2/ Start slow
3/ Use the 3 sec rule
4/ Give compliments
5/ Make progress by asking questions and riffing
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2/ Start slow
3/ Use the 3 sec rule
4/ Give compliments
5/ Make progress by asking questions and riffing
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