You have been FOOLED into thinking that technical skills will make you rich.
WRONG.
The only skill you NEED is the ability to deal with people:
Here are the basics :🧵
WRONG.
The only skill you NEED is the ability to deal with people:
Here are the basics :🧵
Whatever what you’re doing for living, and especially but not necessarily in Business,
Your technical skills will only represent on average less than 20% of your financial success.
The rest 80% will be determined by your ability to get along and influence people.
Your technical skills will only represent on average less than 20% of your financial success.
The rest 80% will be determined by your ability to get along and influence people.
Mastering this art can determine whether or not you live a pleasant life.
It can guarantee you all you’re looking for such as:
-Loyalty
-Increased sales
-Increased authority
-Promotion…
It can guarantee you all you’re looking for such as:
-Loyalty
-Increased sales
-Increased authority
-Promotion…
The success of your relationships in everyday business and social contacts.
Depends on:
-You ability to express ideas.
-To assume leadership.
-To create enthusiasm around people.
Depends on:
-You ability to express ideas.
-To assume leadership.
-To create enthusiasm around people.
Here’s the basics you should train, cause learning it isn’t enough.
-Never criticize:
Criticism is Futile and Dangerous.
Most people think emotionally not logically.
-Never criticize:
Criticism is Futile and Dangerous.
Most people think emotionally not logically.
They don’t criticize themselves for anything, no matter how wrong it may be.
Criticize someone will not correct any situation,
But will only:
-Hurt their pride
-Create ressentment, and Demoralization.
-Put them on the defensive.
-Make them Justify themselves.
Criticize someone will not correct any situation,
But will only:
-Hurt their pride
-Create ressentment, and Demoralization.
-Put them on the defensive.
-Make them Justify themselves.
So instead of critizing
Try to understand them and find out why they do what they do.
It will create more empathy and kindness.
Try to understand them and find out why they do what they do.
It will create more empathy and kindness.
-Desire of importance:
The only true way to make someone do something is by giving them what they want.
We all Desire or need different things like:
-Sex
-Money
-Food…
The only true way to make someone do something is by giving them what they want.
We all Desire or need different things like:
-Sex
-Money
-Food…
But there is one desire people are CRAVING for,
The desire to feel important.
In all your human relations,
You should keep in mind that people are hungry for appreciation.
Everyone need to feed their self-esteem,
They need interest, approval…
The desire to feel important.
In all your human relations,
You should keep in mind that people are hungry for appreciation.
Everyone need to feed their self-esteem,
They need interest, approval…
And one thing most people neglect is to give words of appreciation, to praise…
Start spreading some gratitude, recognition.
You will be surprised how it will:
-Improve all your human relations.
-Get a job you asked for properly done.
Start spreading some gratitude, recognition.
You will be surprised how it will:
-Improve all your human relations.
-Get a job you asked for properly done.
- Self-confidence.
People are able to perceive others self-confidence.
It can completely impact your social outcomes cause it can make people:
-Know they can rely on your skills and strengths.
-Know you can handle bad situations and stress.
-Feeling secure.
People are able to perceive others self-confidence.
It can completely impact your social outcomes cause it can make people:
-Know they can rely on your skills and strengths.
-Know you can handle bad situations and stress.
-Feeling secure.
That's a wrap!
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