Neel Dhingra
Neel Dhingra

@neelhome

28 Tweets 11 reads Jan 30, 2023
If you feel lost in life, read this:
If you're like most people reading this, then you're probably stuck in life because of one of the three reasons below.
1. No money to progress
2. No purpose to succeed
3. No motivation to get started
They're all linked.
You have no motivation because you have no purpose.
You have no purpose because you have no motivation.
You have no money because you have no purpose.
You have no money because you have no motivation.
Luckily, by fixing one, we can fix the others.
Let's begin.
You have no purpose.
You're probably going to a job everyday that you hate.
Surrounded by people who have zero goals or aspirations.
Possibly even going out every weekend to get drunk and forget.
Life feels like a constant loop.
There are currently 2 things that are keeping you from finding your true purpose.
Certainty and Limiting beliefs.
Certainty: Right now you're in a comfortable routine. You have a need for stability and predictability. Getting out of that routine means less certainty and discomfort. Whilst routine isn't bad, it prevents growth. And it keeps us in unfulfilling jobs and situations.
Limiting Beliefs: Most of the time, our environment or circumstances aren't what hold us back. It's ourselves. The things we tell ourselves can either propel us forward or keep us chained. In order to change our lives, we must first be exactly what we wish for.
There's a few ways we can find our purpose, but it's not something as simple as watching a YouTube video and magically knowing the answers.
It's more about searching inwards for the answers.
"What's my purpose" and "How can I be happy" is pretty much the same question.
You need to think about the long term goals in life, then you can work backwards and find ways of achieving them.
Develop an abundance mindset. Focus right now on what you have instead of what you want and then use those things to get you forward.
Too many people focus on what they want and create and endless loop of sadness because they're constantly dreaming about their future instead of taking action with their current situation.
Find what makes you happy.
Set those long term goals.
Use what you currently have.
Then work your ass off to achieve them.
You have no motivation.
Lazy mornings, procrastination and endless hours putting off work usually stems from tasks that get you nowhere near where you want to be.
We put off homework because we don't care about the result.
We put off working because we're in a job we hate.
You'll find that the lack of motivation in your life will disappear when you have something to work towards that you genuinely want to complete.
You'll find that you no longer need alarm clocks in the morning as your purpose will wake you up.
You'll be much happier.
Why many are stuck in a lost loop in life is because they have no idea why they're existing.
Once you find out what it is you're meant to do, you have the motivation to enjoy life and pursue greater things.
You have no money to progress.
You know your purpose, you have the motivation to purse it.
But you're broke.
Money is holding you back.
1 way to fix this. Get your money up.
Get a higher paying job.
Start a side hustle.
Build a business on the side.
Do side jobs.
There's an abundance of ways in this world to make money that don't require a job, nor a degree.
Selling your services online being probably the best.
Learn a high income skill.
Web design. Copywriting. Facebook ads. Sales closing.
Something like that.
Learn the absolute shit out of it.
Then start a Twitter account.
Grow a personal brand. This is how:
- 3 Tweets a day
- 2 threads a week
- Comment value as much as possible
- Dedicate the account to your service and your story
- Post advice, tips, personal experiences, stories and opinions
Do this consistently every week for a long time.
That's how you grow a personal brand.
In terms of how to make money from it.
Craft an offer with your skill first.
Basically come up with something that will help others either make money or get a result
If you do web design, you make websites for people to increase their conversion rates.
If you do sales closing, you jump on sales calls for people to increase their sales and take commission.
If you do Facebook ads, you run ads to increase their sales and take a percentage.
How do you get clients?
Cold outreach. Competence posts. And warm lead engagement.
You send 100 Cold DMs every single day. Find people who look like they need your service and DM them.
You post content that shows you know what you're talking about. Include client results and testimonials.
You DM people who engage with the competence posts and thank them for the engagement. Then proceed to qualify them to see if they need your services.
The main aim is to get them on a call.
You get them on a call. Qualify them. Then sell.
Do the work. Deliver the results and then post about the results online to get more clients.
Repeat this until you're at a good income level per month.
Scale your brand and your services.
Now you have enough money to support your purpose in life.
So you have a solid purpose.
The motivation to go after that purpose.
And the money to support the action you take to achieve the purpose.
That's how you get out of a rut.
Alongside working towards your purpose, you should actively network with like minded people, get yourself in the gym, clean up the diet and overall just take care of yourself.
- Eat better
- Learn skills
- Lift weights
- Read books
- Get outside more
- Connect with others
Get yourself out of that rut and you're destined for a better life.
Find your purpose. Get your motivation back. Get your money up. And start taking care of yourself.
I hope this helped you get back on track.
It will be hard, but its worth it.
And that's all there is to it!
If you have any other wealth building secrets, throw them in the comments.
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