It is time to review it?
Yes, when people consistently put it to you that you showcase some unpleasant attitudes.
Well, you shouldn't attend to this task without being wary of people's tendency to want to hit, at times, with defective statements till they see you break.
Yes, when people consistently put it to you that you showcase some unpleasant attitudes.
Well, you shouldn't attend to this task without being wary of people's tendency to want to hit, at times, with defective statements till they see you break.
But it's a great step in personal development to review some frequently occurring comments under the umbrella of clear reasoning and less emotion.
Emotions cloud our reasoning, they can't be trusted.
Sometimes, people crictism of you can be borne
Emotions cloud our reasoning, they can't be trusted.
Sometimes, people crictism of you can be borne
out of their insecurities and twisted knowledge of good and bad, that is why you must not let anything get to you but rather you reflect on them to see if truly you have been exuding what you were accused of and if you have been what they accused you of you should weigh to see
clearly well if it is or will be something detrimental to the community you find yourself, unhealthy to your own personal growth or be a clog in the wheel of your relationship with your loved ones.
But in doing that be honest with yourself, map out everything plainly without
But in doing that be honest with yourself, map out everything plainly without
trying to make excuses because if you aren't honest with yourself then you are in for a lot of life endangering issues.
And if at all you hit the point where you find that what you are being accused of is truly not pleasant but you weren't aware of it
And if at all you hit the point where you find that what you are being accused of is truly not pleasant but you weren't aware of it
before,extend grace to yourself and promise yourself you would work on it to be better and while working on it remind yourself, always,that good things demand time so you don't beat yourself up for any relapse you might encounter while working on yourself.
Most times we don't
Most times we don't
know we radiate some traits till people point it out to us.
Look at that which you have been accused of in the light of: if it was someone else who showcases what you are will you be okay with it?
And you can also assess who the labelling is coming from and your relationship
Look at that which you have been accused of in the light of: if it was someone else who showcases what you are will you be okay with it?
And you can also assess who the labelling is coming from and your relationship
with them. More often than not a lot of people are triggered when they see other people be what they couldn't amount to so the feeling of disgust pushes them to sow doubt and the feeling of less into your mind.
No matter what it is in the hustling
No matter what it is in the hustling
bustling noise of this world do not forget to have time alone to yourself for personal reflection.
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