Islam teaches us that being good to our mothers is not only considered a virtue, but is also a religious obligation. Are you blessed to still have your mother around?
10 ways you can be good to your mother:
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10 ways you can be good to your mother:
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1. Show respect: Treat your mother with respect & honour. Listen to her, acknowledge & take her opinions & advice seriously. Give appreciation for all that she does. Donβt show annoyance to her & apologise quickly if you fall short. Your spouse & kids should show respect too.
2. Help with chores & other things: Assist your mother with household chores and errands even if she says sheβll do it all. This can help to lighten her load and make her daily life easier. Try to always say βyesβ, to her as much as possible when she asks you to do anything.
3. Spend quality time together: Spend time with your mother, WITH THE PHONE PUT AWAY!Engage in activities that you both enjoy. Whether it's cooking, reading, or going shopping or on walks. Give her your undivided attention.
4. Spend on her & get her gifts: Give your mother small gifts or surprises to show her how much you care. Pay the bill and treat her as much as possible. Get her groceries and pay for them. But also, a bouquet or special gift is also very welcome!
5. Offer support: Be there for your mother when she needs support, whether it's emotional, financial, or otherwise. Listen to her problems and offer advice and comfort. Lend a sympathetic ear. Explain new things to her that might be useful - like new technology or info
6. Turn a blind eye to her faults: If youβve had a disagreement or conflict with your mother, be quick to forgive and reconcile. Donβt hold her hostage to your standards. Overlook & try to understand her character traits that might be challenging. She may have been through a lot
7. Speak kindly: Speak to your mother in a kind and gentle manner. Avoid using harsh words or being critical, as this can hurt her feelings more than you can imagine. Think of all sheβs done for you that you donβt even know about.
8. Respect her privacy: Respect your mother's privacy and personal space. Allow her time and space to rest, relax, and pursue her own interests.
9. Offer praise and encouragement: Offer praise and encouragement to your mother. Acknowledge what sheβs done for you, her strengths, achievements and hard work, and tell her how much she means to you.
10. Pray for Her: Remember your mother in your daily prayers and ask Allah to bless her and grant her good health, happiness, and success.
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