Oscar Adrian
Oscar Adrian

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13 Tweets 4 reads Feb 11, 2023
Here are the 19 most common ways to ruin a romantic relationship.
If you want your relationship to succeed, avoid doing the following:
1. Lack of communication
Not being open and honest with your partner about your thoughts, feelings, and needs can lead to misunderstandings and resentment.
2. Infidelity
Cheating can cause irreparable damage to the trust and emotional connection in your relationship.
3. No trust
Not trusting your partner can create a toxic environment in your relationship.
4. Disrespect
Treating your partner disrespectfully, whether it be through verbal or physical abuse, can erode the foundations of your relationship.
5. Lack of compromise
When wanting to always have your way without compromising, you can cause resentment to build up in your partner.
6. Being controlling
Engaging in this behavior can erode the trust and freedom in your relationship.
7. Neglecting your partner's emotional needs
Doing this can lead your partner to develop feelings of isolation and loneliness.
8. Unrealistic expectations
Having these usually leads to disappointment and dissatisfaction in any relationship and can ruin it if not talked about.
9. Inability to forgive
Holding on to the past hurts, and not being able to forgive can prevent you, and the relationship itself, from moving forward.
10. Financial issues
Problems such as excessive debt or gambling issues can cause stress and conflict in any relationship.
11. Ignoring relationship problems
Failing to address and resolve conflicts will cause them to escalate and damage your relationship.
12. Jealousy
Being overly jealous and possessive will create a controlling and toxic environment, avoid at all costs.
13. Lack of effort
If you stop putting in the effort needed to maintain and improve your relationship, this can become stagnant and unfulfilling.
14. Zero intimacy
A lack of physical and emotional intimacy is one of the biggest reasons why relationships end.
15. Competing priorities
If you or your partner prioritize other things, such as work or hobbies, over your relationship, feelings of neglect and abandonment can develop, leading to the demise of your relationship.
16. Constant criticism
When one of the people in the relationship is constantly criticizing and finding fault with the other, a breakdown in self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy might occur, leading to the end of the relationship.
17. Refusing to change
Refusing to grow or change as individuals and as a couple is a red flag. You should both be constantly evolving and supporting each other.
18. Secrets
Keeping secrets from your partner will end up eroding the trust you have and damage your relationship.
19. Pointing fingers
Constantly blaming each other instead of working together to solve your problems, will ultimately doom your relationship.
There you have it, the 19 most common ways to ruin any romantic relationship.
I wrote this list in order to help you.
If you want to save your relationship from ruin, avoid engaging in any of the behaviors on this list.
And if you still need help, please feel free to DM me.

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