The truth is, WOMEN are often at fault for this because it's not uncommon for wives to feel jealous at the male desire to hang with the boys.
A lot of the things men want to do are things married women don't want to do, and married women often don't let their husbands off leash
A lot of the things men want to do are things married women don't want to do, and married women often don't let their husbands off leash
Many people get married and it becomes hard to go hang out with your friends, especially when you have kids. You're leaving your wife with the kids solo when you aren't working, and there is a degree of guilt involved. Self-imposed or imposed by the wife.
Also a consequence of this is that getting married makes it harder to hang out spontaneously with your friends, because you have responsibilities to other people and you have to schedule things.
If my single friends want to go drink on friday night, they can't tell me that morn.
If my single friends want to go drink on friday night, they can't tell me that morn.
I'm fortunate in that my wife is pretty reasonable about these things. I will be LARPing in the woods next month for a 3 day weekend with my autistic gun club of texas /k/ommandos, like I do every year. Many men though, are not so lucky.
Many have wives that will pout if they are not brought along or included, and once you have kids that means you are isolated to hanging out with other married people with kids.
And what if your wifes friends have cuck husbands you don't like?
And what if your wifes friends have cuck husbands you don't like?
It is difficult for a father who works to justify jetsetting with the boys for a weekend away from his family, and many wives see that as "preferring" their friends to themselves or their kids.
Guys like to do guy things with groups that are mostly guys.
Guys like to do guy things with groups that are mostly guys.
That can be video games, that can be camping or hunting, but generally speaking these are often male hobbies in male environments that women often detract from if they are present, especially if they don't want to be there themselves but feel obligated to go.
In my experience, husbands are more game to "put up" with social engagements a wife wants to go on, even if they don't want to. They'll get longhoused and talk about surface level shit with her friends and their cardigan wearing husbands, while eating off a charcuterie board.
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