Sahil Bloom
Sahil Bloom

@SahilBloom

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3 hard lessons for life (that we all need to learn):
(1) Stop chasing people who are running away.
(2) Stop trying to change people who don’t want to be changed.
(3) Stop allowing people to rob you of your peace of mind.
Internalize these to live a healthier, wealthier life.
(1) and (2) can very easily lead to (3).
When you burn mental energy trying to chase and change people, you’re letting them rob you of your peace of mind.
Focus on those who want to be in your life—who want to progress and improve.
I’ve seen a lot of close friends toil away in relationships predicated on the belief that the other person would eventually change.
It rarely happens.
People only change if they want to change.
A simple, powerful lesson from today’s newsletter.
Life is cyclical. The seeds of destruction are sewn during creation, and the seeds of creation are sewn during destruction.
It’s ok to grow apart from people.
What you needed in the last phase of life may be different from what you need in the current phase (or will need in the future phase).
It takes a special relationship to thrive across the various seasons of life—those are few and far between.

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