The No Bullshit Guide to Winning at First Dates:
1. Your Mindset
Go into the date asking yourself
"Do I even like her?"
This stops you from getting nervous
Don't be too concerned with her first impression of you
Keep your focus on her and if she is up to YOUR standards
Go into the date asking yourself
"Do I even like her?"
This stops you from getting nervous
Don't be too concerned with her first impression of you
Keep your focus on her and if she is up to YOUR standards
2. Two Ears, One mouth
Don't be a blabbermouth
Listen twice as much as you speak
Women love to talk about themselves
Ask her questions and pay attention to her answers
Don't be a blabbermouth
Listen twice as much as you speak
Women love to talk about themselves
Ask her questions and pay attention to her answers
3. It's a Vibe
Keep the interaction light and fun
And keep yourself a mystery
Make her work to figure you out
Women LOVE a mental challenge
Keep the interaction light and fun
And keep yourself a mystery
Make her work to figure you out
Women LOVE a mental challenge
4. Entertainer Trap
Humor is a tool
But overuse it and you're friendzoned
It's good to be funny
But don't fall into the trap of being her entertainment for the night
Don't fill every silence with a shitty joke
Humor is a tool
But overuse it and you're friendzoned
It's good to be funny
But don't fall into the trap of being her entertainment for the night
Don't fill every silence with a shitty joke
5. Silence
Silence builds attraction
You know that urge to fill the silence?
She experiences it too
This nervous energy is part of an emotional rollercoaster for her
Women love emotions
Let her break the silence
This is frame
Silence builds attraction
You know that urge to fill the silence?
She experiences it too
This nervous energy is part of an emotional rollercoaster for her
Women love emotions
Let her break the silence
This is frame
6. Eye Contact
Make strong eye contact
Let her look away first most of the time
Don't be weird about it
This is an art
Make strong eye contact
Let her look away first most of the time
Don't be weird about it
This is an art
7. Dressed to Kill
Be the best-dressed man in the room
It's that simple
Dress appropriately for the venue
But take it up 1 notch
People will notice you and she will notice that
Instant social proof
Plus, dressing sharp is an automatic +20 in confidence
Be the best-dressed man in the room
It's that simple
Dress appropriately for the venue
But take it up 1 notch
People will notice you and she will notice that
Instant social proof
Plus, dressing sharp is an automatic +20 in confidence
8. Sanity Check
The primary objective on the first date is to check her crazy level
Watch for glaring red flags
If she turns out to be nuts, cut your losses and move on to the next girl
The primary objective on the first date is to check her crazy level
Watch for glaring red flags
If she turns out to be nuts, cut your losses and move on to the next girl
9. Atmosphere
Pick a simple activity
My go-to is a coffee shop
The less stimulating the better
This creates the right atmosphere to vibe with her and build a connection
Pick a simple activity
My go-to is a coffee shop
The less stimulating the better
This creates the right atmosphere to vibe with her and build a connection
10. Time Limit
Keep the interaction to about 90 minutes
Be the one to end the date
Leave her wanting more of you
Keep the interaction to about 90 minutes
Be the one to end the date
Leave her wanting more of you
11. Enjoy Yourself
I've never been on a bad date
Even if I:
• Don't click with the girl
• Get stood up
• Get rejected
I never have a bad time
Dating is supposed to be fun fellas
Learn to love your own company
Don't take yourself too seriously
It's all in your Frame
I've never been on a bad date
Even if I:
• Don't click with the girl
• Get stood up
• Get rejected
I never have a bad time
Dating is supposed to be fun fellas
Learn to love your own company
Don't take yourself too seriously
It's all in your Frame
TLDR
1. Your Mindset
2. Two Ears, One Mouth
3. It's a Vibe
4. Entertainer Trap
5. Silence
6. Eye Contact
7. Dressed to Kill
8. Sanity Check
9. Atmosphere
10. Time Limit
11. Enjoy Yourself
1. Your Mindset
2. Two Ears, One Mouth
3. It's a Vibe
4. Entertainer Trap
5. Silence
6. Eye Contact
7. Dressed to Kill
8. Sanity Check
9. Atmosphere
10. Time Limit
11. Enjoy Yourself
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