A lot of sisters aren’t going to like this tweet but it needs to be said. Stop putting men as your standard. By this I mean, stop wanting everything they have. Find the beauty in all the rights Allah has given you. Women want to dress like men, want to work like men, want to
go out like men. Ik these words will be twisted, I’m not saying women shouldn’t work, but Allah has put specific restrictions on this for a woman, stop trying to be like a man. Understand all which Allah has given you. A man’s job is to provide for the home, and a woman’s is to
maintain the home. It’s black and white in the Quran. You can’t deny it. Now your definition of maintaining the home may be different but stop complaining. You don’t see men saying I’ll provide for myself but not my wife, so why do you become selfish? Marriage is companionship,
it’s providing services to each other, all out of love. And this problem is exactly why there are so many divorces. Women don’t know how to cook and clean, and refuse to learn. Men become unsatisfied with their women and go cheat. Both are wrong, both are at fault
And I personally know several people who have been divorced for this exact reason. Women crave what men have just because they think it’s better, stop putting men as your standard. Learn your own values and rights as a woman because wallahi they’re great and beautiful
And a lot of sisters love to use Khadijah (RA) as their model for an independent woman but they forget what an amazing obedient supportive wife she was to the Prophet ﷺ. Also at the beginning of time, who did Allah create to accompany Adam (AS)?
Allah created Hawa (AS) from his rib, for him to be her protector and provider, and for her to be his support. I will give an example of how women are today to put this into perspective for you; a man is shown tying the shoes of his wife and all the comments are sweet
and no one says disgusting words against him for this service/honour towards his wife. But flip the switch and a woman tying his shoes and suddenly the comments are derogatory, women are mocking it, calling it slave work, saying it’s shameful. You notice the difference?
Now this thread is simply to put things into perspective for my beautiful sisters, please understand the rights Allah has given you and the rights your husband has over you and you have over him. Don’t cross the lines of what’s allowed and not.
This is not a judgemental tweet or an arrogant one astagfirullah, it’s simply a reminder for my sisters to stop putting western values as your own. Allah has given us the best rights, once you understand them you’ll find the beauty in them, may Allah be pleased with us all
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