I tried every dating book/course out there only to come back to the bible.
Here’s what you DON’T need from the pick-up world. 🧵
Here’s what you DON’T need from the pick-up world. 🧵
1. You don’t need to be the “guy who gets lots of girls”
Jordan Peterson said it best here…
“When you go looking for casual sex partners, you become someone who is only worthy of casual sex yourself”
Jordan Peterson said it best here…
“When you go looking for casual sex partners, you become someone who is only worthy of casual sex yourself”
You’ll find much more abundance in your world when you find a ride-or-die.
"He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." Proverbs 18:22
"He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." Proverbs 18:22
2. Game
If you’re a guy winning in every area of your life, you don’t need “game.”
You become the game. The bible talks about developing Jesus like characteristics. Ask yourself what would jesus do and be a man of value. Women want you to have the depth of Jesus.
If you’re a guy winning in every area of your life, you don’t need “game.”
You become the game. The bible talks about developing Jesus like characteristics. Ask yourself what would jesus do and be a man of value. Women want you to have the depth of Jesus.
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Proverbs 4:23
3. Cold approach
Instead of running around the city llike a psychopath, maximizing for physical attraction. Look for women with shared interests, values, and visions for the future.
Love is not enough.
God wants you to build strong relationships.
Instead of running around the city llike a psychopath, maximizing for physical attraction. Look for women with shared interests, values, and visions for the future.
Love is not enough.
God wants you to build strong relationships.
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up." Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
4. Sex before marriage is haram
Understand: If you’re having sex with someone, you are potentially going to make a baby with them.
So ask yourself, do I want to have a baby with this person and would I be able to take care of my family?
Understand: If you’re having sex with someone, you are potentially going to make a baby with them.
So ask yourself, do I want to have a baby with this person and would I be able to take care of my family?
You don’t need to wait until you have millions in the bank, but at the end of the day, whoever you’re sleeping with is basically your wife.
"Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character." 1 Corinthians 15:33
"Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character." 1 Corinthians 15:33
You could spend a lifetime playing mind games, thinking they need to be rich, sabotaging relationships, becoming the guy who “get’s lots of girls” only to end up empty handed with years of regret…
Or you can figure this shit out in one move. Here’s the invite…
Or you can figure this shit out in one move. Here’s the invite…
More depth here, full workshop i put on daily 🙏🏽 tribeaccelerator.com
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