The more dating partners you have before marriage, the harder it’ll be to marry, because the more baggage you carry. This isn’t God’s design. Marriage was made for exploration and growth in there, not to a casual place to settle after exploring. You’re wounding yourself.

It gets even worse when you’re having multiple sex partners before marriage. It twists you. A woman who’s experienced 9 inches, 6 inches, 7 inches, is the woman who’ll most likely compare. The man who’s slept with tall, short, dark and light-skinned has something to compare to.

Marriage was meant to be a clean sheet where you begin to write and build your journey. Not a messed up page where you’re more focused on erasing past mistakes, and unpacking all your baggage.

Dating is not a Christian concept, and I’m not saying it’s necessarily a sin. But God never calls anyone to be a boyfriend/girlfriend. God instituted marriage, not hanky-panky. Court to marry. The more you date and sleep around, the more marriage will be difficult for you.

It is shameful to be 23 and have 5 exes. After letting different people imprint their traumas on you, you begin to look for someone who’ll save you in marriage. The only experience you need before marriage is godly courtship.