Kudakwashe R. Mupfumi
Kudakwashe R. Mupfumi

@MupfumiRegiment

7 tweets 75 reads Apr 26, 2023
HOW TO AVOID KUNYENGWA PABASA
Too often I have heard a lot of women complain kuti varume vakundinyenga pabasa or that she is being sexually abused verbally at work so I have decided to share a few pointers which can guide one to avoid such cases.
1: Don't be too accommodating to men at work:_ learn to set boundaries and learn not to share deep stuff about you. Keep your work place for work zvekuwanza nyaya about how your weekend outings where uchibvunza your male counteinformation about is hw u create the dangerous bond.
2: Don't kumbira kumbira favours too much._ Heee ndiperekedzewo heee nditengerewo airtime. Those favours will make some guys now want to be involved newe as they will be now providing for you
3: Don't share your marriage problems or show your marriage problems at work or to your opposite sex work mates:_ Not everyone cares about you and will give you the best advice. Zvekufugura fugura hapwa yemumba menyu amai dzorai. Zivai wekuudza nekwekutapurira.
4: Dress accordingly.Pamwe pacho murume anenge asitorina basa newe but the moment you start wearing sexy stuff at work anozongowira. Remember unenge una boss wako or your colleague for the most part of the day so remember not to wear too much revealing clothes to them.
5: hukama: In our African culture it's easier kuwana ukama nemunhu once akuudza surname yake. So iva nana sekuru bhudhi ,bamukuru, bamunini pabasa that way munhu unenge watomuisa paposition yake. Vapfanha vechidiki uku vanokuti kufriendzoner munhu 😹
Don't hide your relationship/marriage ita vazive y are taken and vasafungidzire zvakakosha izvozvo. Also try to have mawork outings which you bring your partner not kungoenda kumadinner and outings as work mates badzi.
Last but not least gutsikana nemunhu wako.

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