ThatBlessedGirl
ThatBlessedGirl

@BlessedGirl001

6 Tweets 3 reads May 13, 2023
Stop asking a woman "Do you still have feelings for your ex?" β€” this is one of the dumbest question you can ever ask a woman, esp when you know she has no communication with him.
Why are you planting seeds of distrust in your relationship?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ You think if she has
feelings for her ex she will tell you yes?? β€”No she won't!
And even if she tells you "I have feelings for my ex", will you leave??β€” in most cases you won't. So tell me what's the essence of asking that questionπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ & even if she says "NO i don't have feelings for my ex", will you
believe her?? Or will it make you doubt her more?? Think about it nowπŸ€” How does that question strengthens your relationship? Or make her not leave you & go back to himπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
But I understand sha, when a man ask this question, he has caught his girl still in communication with
Her ex.
But depending on the frequency of communication with her ex. Because sometimes, she might not even have any tangible feelings for him anymore. But when you ask her this question depending on her level of emotional investment in you, it might make her starts to
Question her own feelings & might even push her away from you and back into the arms of her ex. Because you have indirectly affirmed with her subconsciousness that she might actually have feelings for him & should be with him.
But see, if she's CONSTANTLY in touch with her ex,
And it makes you uncomfortable, communicate this with her, not by violence or voice raising and if she REFUSES to STOP contacting him, LEAVE!
Leave that relationship!
My opinion thoughπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ’―

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