Yesterday, I tweeted about the importance of being calm as a man in a relationship during conflict.
And I know it's difficult to control your emotions especially when you're hearing really hurtful words.
So I'm going to teach you how to control your emotions in arguments
And I know it's difficult to control your emotions especially when you're hearing really hurtful words.
So I'm going to teach you how to control your emotions in arguments
The first thing I want you to always keep at the back of your mind in a relationship and life in general is this...
"You can't control what happens to you but you can control how you interpret thus, controlling how you react to it"
Now let it sink in properly.
You can control
"You can't control what happens to you but you can control how you interpret thus, controlling how you react to it"
Now let it sink in properly.
You can control
how you react to circumstances by interpreting it to yourself in a positive way.
For example, someone tells you that you behave like a 7-year old.
You can choose to interpret it like this...
"What kind of disrespect is that. How can this person tell me that I'm as stupid as a
For example, someone tells you that you behave like a 7-year old.
You can choose to interpret it like this...
"What kind of disrespect is that. How can this person tell me that I'm as stupid as a
7 year old"
And based on this interpretation, you'd react to it.
Or you can choose to interpret it like this in your head...
"Lol. That's like the funniest thing I've heard" because you know it's not true and you'd react calmly to it.
Bringing this to a relationship
And based on this interpretation, you'd react to it.
Or you can choose to interpret it like this in your head...
"Lol. That's like the funniest thing I've heard" because you know it's not true and you'd react calmly to it.
Bringing this to a relationship
During heated arguments most times we want to get heard and in extreme cases, a woman would say some things to hurt you.
Don't let it get to you.
When she starts complaining or nagging, this is what you'll have to do.
Try to manipulate the image of her in your head to that of
Don't let it get to you.
When she starts complaining or nagging, this is what you'll have to do.
Try to manipulate the image of her in your head to that of
a nagging 7-year old.
You do this by reducing the her height in your head.
If you do this properly, you'd laugh actually because it's funny and then, none of the things she tells you would mean anything to you
Because you're already looking at her the way you'd look at your
You do this by reducing the her height in your head.
If you do this properly, you'd laugh actually because it's funny and then, none of the things she tells you would mean anything to you
Because you're already looking at her the way you'd look at your
7 year old sister.
I know, it's going to be difficult at first but with time, it becomes easier.
And this is one of the most effective trick I know that helps you remain calm during heated arguments with a woman.q
I know, it's going to be difficult at first but with time, it becomes easier.
And this is one of the most effective trick I know that helps you remain calm during heated arguments with a woman.q
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