Here’s the thing:
We have an instinctual desire to remain consistent with our prior actions and beliefs. This can lead us to behave in irrational ways.
We have an instinctual desire to remain consistent with our prior actions and beliefs. This can lead us to behave in irrational ways.
Consistency is seen as one of the most desirable social traits and is an indication that someone is rational, trustworthy, and stable.
When someone lacks consistency... They are not trusted and respected.
Knowing all that, there is something in Behavioural Psychology called The Principle of Commitment and Consistency.
Knowing all that, there is something in Behavioural Psychology called The Principle of Commitment and Consistency.
The principle of Commitment & Consistently is super important to understand when it comes down to attracting women because people like to act and behave in accordance with what they say.
We act in ways that are consistent with our initial action or thought so that when we commit to something or someone, we stick to it.
We also try to behave in ways that are consistent with the image we have portrayed to others.
We also try to behave in ways that are consistent with the image we have portrayed to others.
So how does this relate to dating and being successful with women?
Well if you read some of my posts and PDFs about Frame control or if you read my book Playboy Secrets, you know the importance of setting the right frames when interacting with women.
Well if you read some of my posts and PDFs about Frame control or if you read my book Playboy Secrets, you know the importance of setting the right frames when interacting with women.
A frame is simply the underlying meaning of the interaction, and it also correlates to having assumed authority and dominance in the interaction.
Now in terms of commitment and consistency, whatever frames a girl accepts, she will be likely to remain consistent with.
For example, if you ask a girl "How adventurous are you on a scale of 1-10?" earlier in the conversation and she gives you a high number, she's way more likely to act in a way that's more adventurous with you because she wants to stay congruent with what she said or agreed to.
Another example is let’s say you’re at a bar and you go to the smoking area with a girl and get her away from her friends, you could say "You seem pretty independent, I love how spontaneous you are"
You're basically rewarding the type of frame or trait you want her to have.
You're basically rewarding the type of frame or trait you want her to have.
And then if she agrees or validates that statement, she's way more likely to be receptive to you leading her somewhere else if she likes you.
She will gladly follow along to stay consistent with that identity if she likes you.
What gets rewarded, gets repeated.
She will gladly follow along to stay consistent with that identity if she likes you.
What gets rewarded, gets repeated.
These are very basic examples.
But if people remain consistent with the frames they comply with, then the next question is: What frames are the best to throw out there?
But if people remain consistent with the frames they comply with, then the next question is: What frames are the best to throw out there?
Frames you want to avoid:
Sassy, cold, on a pedestal, innocent, mean, hot, famous, a good girl, conservative, boring.
Sassy, cold, on a pedestal, innocent, mean, hot, famous, a good girl, conservative, boring.
Frames you want to elicit:
Adventurous, open-minded, submissive, friendly, sweet, cute, feminine, nonjudgmental, independent/thinks for herself, spontaneous, fun.
Adventurous, open-minded, submissive, friendly, sweet, cute, feminine, nonjudgmental, independent/thinks for herself, spontaneous, fun.
The better the frames you project onto women and the more they’re going to comply with your masculine frame and stay consistent with that.
It’s a very simple concept that can TRIPLE your success with women if you understand it fully.
It’s a very simple concept that can TRIPLE your success with women if you understand it fully.
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