WHY YOU SHOULD STOP VALIDATING WOMEN. (3 HIDDEN WAYS YOU VALIDATE HER WITHOUT YOU KNOWING)
Validating women to me is SIMPING & I’m going to go over why I believe y’all should cut it out from your playbook because y’all ain’t simps.
I’m here to open y’all eyes
Let’s dive into.
Validating women to me is SIMPING & I’m going to go over why I believe y’all should cut it out from your playbook because y’all ain’t simps.
I’m here to open y’all eyes
Let’s dive into.
As kings, y’all shouldn’t be validating women because that instantly puts you below her. Y’all out here calling women you just met“beautiful” “gorgeous” “astonishing” & all these validations but she has never for ONCE called you handsome.
What message do you think you’re sending to her? You’ve automatically put her on a pedestal & she’s not coming down from it until you catch yourself now.
Even if she validates you, make sure that she has to earn her validation from you. Do not give it to her freely.
Even if she validates you, make sure that she has to earn her validation from you. Do not give it to her freely.
There are ways you validate women without knowing you’re validating her.
1.) YOU STARE AT HER IN LUST.
The thing most guys are doing now when they see an attractive chic is that they just stand there & STARE AT HER BODY IN LUST. Some of y’all even start drooling.
1.) YOU STARE AT HER IN LUST.
The thing most guys are doing now when they see an attractive chic is that they just stand there & STARE AT HER BODY IN LUST. Some of y’all even start drooling.
That’s weird AF. That is validation, because she sees you staring at her body & she knows you like what you see. You don’t even need to walk up to her & tell her she’s beautiful or sexy, she already hear you say it without you even voicing it out.
Note: maintaining eye contact isn’t the same as staring at her body I lust, because I know that most of y’all would be in the comment section asking me this question. They’re not the same.
Y’all would rather just stand there & stare without even approaching her. That’s weak!
Y’all would rather just stand there & stare without even approaching her. That’s weak!
Stop staring at women in lust. That’s you validating her, cut it out.
2.) LIKING HER PHOTOS ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
I’ve talked about this on one of our spaces but y’all need to hear it again.
When a chic posts her photos online, she is seeking male
2.) LIKING HER PHOTOS ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
I’ve talked about this on one of our spaces but y’all need to hear it again.
When a chic posts her photos online, she is seeking male
Attention & validation. Miss me with that “oh she’s posting it for herself” BS.
If the photo was really for herself ALONE, she’d have left it in her gallery.
But she knows how thirsty y’all are, so she’s gon post thirst traps & y’all in the comment section
If the photo was really for herself ALONE, she’d have left it in her gallery.
But she knows how thirsty y’all are, so she’s gon post thirst traps & y’all in the comment section
Behaving like a hungry dog who hasn’t eaten in days.
Check any thirst trap posted online, go through the likes & comments, 98% will be men.
A mid chic can post a thirst trap & it’ll get 500 likes, Some even go more. Y’all are so thirsty, that you’re gassing up mid chics.
Check any thirst trap posted online, go through the likes & comments, 98% will be men.
A mid chic can post a thirst trap & it’ll get 500 likes, Some even go more. Y’all are so thirsty, that you’re gassing up mid chics.
Imagine what her dms will look like. Y’all men need to snap back into reality. Stop liking photos of these chics. You’re validating them.
“Headking it’s not that deep” YES, it is that deep.
Y’all be giving these women ego without you knowing.
“Headking it’s not that deep” YES, it is that deep.
Y’all be giving these women ego without you knowing.
Now we’re in a world where mid chics are demanding things from men because she had 500 likes on her photos daily.
3.) ALWAYS WANTING TO SEE HER OR CONTACT HER FIRST.
If you’re the guy that always want to see a particular chic & you tell her, you’re validating her & this is because you care too much about her presence & now you’re having her think she has the best personality
If you’re the guy that always want to see a particular chic & you tell her, you’re validating her & this is because you care too much about her presence & now you’re having her think she has the best personality
Even though she doesn’t even have one. That is validation. She should be the one always checking in to see if you’d be available to see her. She should be the one wanting to see you.
For those of y’all that are kings, how do you feel when a chic is constantly hitting you up because she wants to see you? You feel good. You feel there’s something about you she can’t get over.
As guys, we won’t even exaggerate it but women will, she’ll feel she’s a goddess.
As guys, we won’t even exaggerate it but women will, she’ll feel she’s a goddess.
If you’re the guy that always hits her up, you’re validating her because you want her attention. Y’all need to really step back & understand the things you do & analyse it.
You’re always the one hitting her up first because you want her in your dms, texting you.
You’re always the one hitting her up first because you want her in your dms, texting you.
Let her be the one to chase for your attention, not you.
Note: YOU SHOULD ONLY VALIDATE HER WHEN SHE HAS EARNED IT.
STOP GIVING OUT YOUR VALIDATION FREELY.
Enjoy your evening kings, love y’all. 👑
Note: YOU SHOULD ONLY VALIDATE HER WHEN SHE HAS EARNED IT.
STOP GIVING OUT YOUR VALIDATION FREELY.
Enjoy your evening kings, love y’all. 👑
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