Your most important life decision is who you have children with.
Here’s how to find the right person…
Here’s how to find the right person…
1. Don’t try to find the right woman.
Attract her by becoming the right person.
Attract her by becoming the right person.
2. Men want respect and to feel useful.
Women want appreciation and to feel loved.
Women want appreciation and to feel loved.
3. Women prove loyalty by staying with you when you’re broke.
Men prove loyalty by staying with you when you’re sick.
Trust and loyalty are the glue of any serious relationship.
Men prove loyalty by staying with you when you’re sick.
Trust and loyalty are the glue of any serious relationship.
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4. Be decisive
Know what you want.
A woman is attracted to a man who has a strong sense of purpose and leadership.
In a world where people can’t chose which restaurant to go to, stand out by making quick, adaptable decisions.
Know what you want.
A woman is attracted to a man who has a strong sense of purpose and leadership.
In a world where people can’t chose which restaurant to go to, stand out by making quick, adaptable decisions.
5. Don’t seek approval.
It’s not her job to make you happy.
That’s your responsibility.
He should boost your happiness, not be the source.
No need to put unnecessary pressure on each other.
It’s not her job to make you happy.
That’s your responsibility.
He should boost your happiness, not be the source.
No need to put unnecessary pressure on each other.
6. Focus on communication:
Your partner can’t read your mind.
You need to be:
•Direct
•Honest
•Vulnerable
•Don’t play games
Your partner can’t read your mind.
You need to be:
•Direct
•Honest
•Vulnerable
•Don’t play games
7. Women want to be heard
Sometimes the best form of communication is to listen.
When you try to fix all her problems, she thinks you’re not listening to her.
Women need to acknowledge and appreciate men trying to fix problems, but over-communicate when he needs to listen.
Sometimes the best form of communication is to listen.
When you try to fix all her problems, she thinks you’re not listening to her.
Women need to acknowledge and appreciate men trying to fix problems, but over-communicate when he needs to listen.
8. Any problems you don’t address in a relationship will come back after marriage, and it won’t be pretty..
Don’t pretend to be perfect.
Do what is difficult now, when the problem is small.
Vulnerability is essential for mutual growth.
Don’t pretend to be perfect.
Do what is difficult now, when the problem is small.
Vulnerability is essential for mutual growth.
9. Take care of your health
Women love V-shaped muscular upper bodies (not too muscular) (generally, not always)
•Arms
•Back
•Chest
You can tell if someone’s healthy just be looking at their skin.
Women love V-shaped muscular upper bodies (not too muscular) (generally, not always)
•Arms
•Back
•Chest
You can tell if someone’s healthy just be looking at their skin.
10. Get your finances in order.
Money will fix all your money problems (most problems).
Don’t neglect this crucial discipline..
Money will fix all your money problems (most problems).
Don’t neglect this crucial discipline..
11. She’ll test you to see if you compromise your values.
She wants you to change, but doesn’t actually want you to change (that much).
If you change and put her on a pedestal, she will get bored and lose interest.
She wants you to change, but doesn’t actually want you to change (that much).
If you change and put her on a pedestal, she will get bored and lose interest.
12. You have a common vision for the future.
Your goals are aligned.
And you are both working towards them.
Your goals are aligned.
And you are both working towards them.
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