Shadab Hussain
Shadab Hussain

@romantic_nomad

8 Tweets 10 reads Sep 06, 2023
How to know if your potential wife is a feminist
A thread 🧡
Firstly before even addressing the topic you need to understand crypto feminism exists too, the best method to deal with this is as follows
1: favourite scholars
Many "Shaykhs" or "Shaykhas" sell narcissism (1/8)
to young women clothed as self assessment
Few shuyukh for fiqh, another few for tafsir, reminders etc should be fine
2: follows pop culture
Loose hijab,witch nails and a plastic face are occasionally possessed by women who indulge in post 2010 mainstream media
3: muddying of waters
Many muslim women would pass the basic test of "men and women aren't equal" but beware sometimes it's just grifting to take benefits and give up responsibilities
4: unpaid concubine to the liberal overload
Every argument against travelling without mahram,hijab, financial situation in a relationship(his money my money my money bs) and even topics such as mahr, divorce(she thinks female "divorce" exists) will scream crypto feminism
5: thinks 1st wave feminism was good("iam just don't like the toxic kindπŸ’…")
The very fact than someone who claims to follow the Shariah appreciates and claps to the witches during 1980s as "Real TM Feminism" should tell you she's a cringe larper
6: Over indulging in the secular sciences
Very few women genuinely benefit from this,these kind of women are occasionally delusional who think they can get a 28yo "settled"man while being 28(flawed understanding of hypergamy and masculinity) these are very sad individuals
7: miscellaneous
Topics such as abortion, not wanting abundance of kids(subjective ofcourse still), polygyny(disdain) , age of consent, misrepresents legacy of noble women to fit into her neo-crypto feminism ("Khadijah was independent""Prophet didn't allow Ali to marry") etc etc
Conclusion: end of the day it's Qadr of Allah,you're not smarter than what's already written in your tablet,but don't be stupid
If you're a woman who got triggered by this, before replying atleast ponder,few things better than good noble women
May Allah grant us good spouses.

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