Thokozani 🤲
A couple of things I would like to say. Which is a big problem. I will name a few. The list can be long.
- it's a big no when you get married and they say to the "wife" If your mother in law is a witch you must also join her 🤨
- hayi " Gogo we signed in court" so

we married. Haibo haibo. If nothing traditionally was done forget makhoti you still the girlfriend. It's important to introduce each other culturally and by isiko. Certain things are done on the groom side and certain things are done on the makhoti side.

- be careful who takes your child umbilical cord.
- if your husband/ wife passes mourn them properly.
- if your husband/ wife passes and now you ready to date again, go and report to them. I have had cases where a partner that has passed, blocking they partner from dating again

- there is nothing like it's just a dream. You may not understand the dream now but later you will.
- don't just throw your PADS anywhere ladies. Alot can be done with your pad.
- isithembu is not for everyone, yes you many come from isithembu but it doesn't mean you must also

do it.
- very important to do imbeleko for your children, " hayi gogo my child was baptized at church" haibo so is Matthew from the bible they ancestor.
- acknowledge your ancestors. Don't always ask for money at times just go and say thank you. Amadlozi are not ATM's.