Why non-reactivity is masculine.
In our gay and womanly times, men are reactive and emotional to others. They easily fall into their feelings and give away power. They cannot hide how they feel because they are dependent on others for how they feel. See? A man in his masculine frame is non reactive to emotional triggering. Read on.
Is reacting to others a bad thing. Yes and no. Many so called stoic men are passive in their non-reactivity and completely detach from the world in a cuck state. They watch on like observers to reality and do not allow reality to effect them. This has some benefits but frame is anchored in a seeking for control and power. We must as men know when to spring like tigers in the hunt at reality and not moralize passivity.
So when is non-reactivity wrong? When a man is watching his life burn down, when barbarians invade his land and seek to destroy his kingdom and impregnate his women. It is wrong when a man does not stand up for his dignity when his female disrespects him. This when he should be immediate in correcting her which corrects the frame of authority in the relationship.
When is reactivity wrong? The majority of men are emotionally reactive to life and to the thoughts of others. Remember, a word only hurts us when we give authority to the speaker and when we allow others to make us doubt ourselves. If someone said a disparaging remark about his mother, should he take offense? First, how important is the speaker to a man and is the words true? Is the goal to make a man emotionally triggered? If someone seeks to trigger us, to get triggered is to run into a trap that they have set. See? An alpha predator does not fall easily into traps. He coldly ignores them by stepping around.
Men who are easily made to blush and who are easily made angry are men with weak sense of themselves. Remember, anger is emotion loss if control. Men who erupt in rage because they are humiliated only prove that their taunters hold truth that is revealed by the reaction itself.
The world is full of people who want to control men with the doubts that these men already hold about themselves.
Does a surgeon need to have emotion to cut into the flesh? Does a hunter need emotion in the hunt? A man does not need emotion to coldly act upon his mission. He is focused on actions and not easily distracted by reactions.
Masculine frame is belief in self that is orderly, disciplined and contained behaviorism. We act, we do not react. A man should take stands for what he believes in like his own dignity but he should not run after those seeking to reveal doubts and weaknesses.
In our gay and womanly times, men are reactive and emotional to others. They easily fall into their feelings and give away power. They cannot hide how they feel because they are dependent on others for how they feel. See? A man in his masculine frame is non reactive to emotional triggering. Read on.
Is reacting to others a bad thing. Yes and no. Many so called stoic men are passive in their non-reactivity and completely detach from the world in a cuck state. They watch on like observers to reality and do not allow reality to effect them. This has some benefits but frame is anchored in a seeking for control and power. We must as men know when to spring like tigers in the hunt at reality and not moralize passivity.
So when is non-reactivity wrong? When a man is watching his life burn down, when barbarians invade his land and seek to destroy his kingdom and impregnate his women. It is wrong when a man does not stand up for his dignity when his female disrespects him. This when he should be immediate in correcting her which corrects the frame of authority in the relationship.
When is reactivity wrong? The majority of men are emotionally reactive to life and to the thoughts of others. Remember, a word only hurts us when we give authority to the speaker and when we allow others to make us doubt ourselves. If someone said a disparaging remark about his mother, should he take offense? First, how important is the speaker to a man and is the words true? Is the goal to make a man emotionally triggered? If someone seeks to trigger us, to get triggered is to run into a trap that they have set. See? An alpha predator does not fall easily into traps. He coldly ignores them by stepping around.
Men who are easily made to blush and who are easily made angry are men with weak sense of themselves. Remember, anger is emotion loss if control. Men who erupt in rage because they are humiliated only prove that their taunters hold truth that is revealed by the reaction itself.
The world is full of people who want to control men with the doubts that these men already hold about themselves.
Does a surgeon need to have emotion to cut into the flesh? Does a hunter need emotion in the hunt? A man does not need emotion to coldly act upon his mission. He is focused on actions and not easily distracted by reactions.
Masculine frame is belief in self that is orderly, disciplined and contained behaviorism. We act, we do not react. A man should take stands for what he believes in like his own dignity but he should not run after those seeking to reveal doubts and weaknesses.
The Wall Speaks is an easy to read guide on learning masculine frame.
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