Kamilla | The Dating Coach
Kamilla | The Dating Coach

@thedatingboss

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Five Ways to Stop Being a Simp
What's a simp?
It’s someone who does way too much for a person they like.
And the person they like doesn't reciprocate that same level of affection or love back.
You are not alone in this.
Every guy has simped before.
Multiple times.
They can’t help themselves. They meet a girl they really like, she gives them some attention, and all of the sudden he becomes devoted to her.
It’s a bad dynamic to be in.
If you’re simping for a girl, 95% of the time, she will not return the favor or any affection.
That’s why you need to learn how to stop being a simp.
How do you do that?
1) Stop doing unprompted favors
Do not go out of your way to help her out.
If it’s your wife or girlfriend, different story.
But a girl who hasn’t earned your devotion yet?
No need to be Mr. nice guy.
2) Make yourself less available
If she only texts you when she’s bored and has nothing else going on, or her plans fell through and she uses you as a last resort, be less available.
Don’t always run to be in her presence when she’s got no other options.
4) Prioritize your own life
Be busy. Make money. Hit the gym.
Be about your purpose and life.
Have so much going on that you have no time to simp.
5) Meet more women
When there’s other women in your life, your chances of being desperate for a particular girl dramatically drop.
Try to have 2-3 other girls in your life even if you don’t find them attractive. It’ll help.

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