Iโm going to teach you a simple system on how to meet women in bars.
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Step 1: Find a really good bar
Look for a bar that has different people always showing up. You donโt want a hole in the wall with the same 15 locals and no hot women.
You want a fairly active place in a good neighborhood.
Look for a bar that has different people always showing up. You donโt want a hole in the wall with the same 15 locals and no hot women.
You want a fairly active place in a good neighborhood.
Step 2: Prepare accordingly
Dress appropriately. Do not come too dressed up or too relaxed.
Also, be generous with your fragrance.
Dress appropriately. Do not come too dressed up or too relaxed.
Also, be generous with your fragrance.
Step 3: Talk to a woman as quickly as you can
Approaching women is a nerve-wracking experience.
The longer you wait to talk to anyone, the worse your approach anxiety will get.
Pull the band-aid off right away.
Approaching women is a nerve-wracking experience.
The longer you wait to talk to anyone, the worse your approach anxiety will get.
Pull the band-aid off right away.
Walk by the first woman you see and just say anything to her.
โThatโs a fancy looking drink. What is that?โ
โReally? Working at this hour?โ (if you see her on her laptop)
Youโll feel a lot better right away and be in a better mindset to start talking to women.
โThatโs a fancy looking drink. What is that?โ
โReally? Working at this hour?โ (if you see her on her laptop)
Youโll feel a lot better right away and be in a better mindset to start talking to women.
Step 4: Sit where youโll be able to see everyone
You want to be positioned so you can make eye contact with as many people as possible.
In case a girl is looking at you, you can see it clearly and buy her a drink.
You want to be positioned so you can make eye contact with as many people as possible.
In case a girl is looking at you, you can see it clearly and buy her a drink.
In case a girl is sitting by herself bored, youโre at the perfect vantage point to notice and approach her.
If this is a busy place, there will be 20ish women showing up throughout the night.
Do not sit with your head down on your phone all night.
Look up and pay attention.
If this is a busy place, there will be 20ish women showing up throughout the night.
Do not sit with your head down on your phone all night.
Look up and pay attention.
Itโs also not a bad idea to become a regular at this bar and get to know everyone there.
Guys youโll make friends with could show up with their female friends.
Youโll have an easy path to meeting them.
Guys youโll make friends with could show up with their female friends.
Youโll have an easy path to meeting them.
Women are also occasional regulars at bars.
You never know who youโll end up meeting because you became a familiar face at this bar.
You never know who youโll end up meeting because you became a familiar face at this bar.
TIP: Drinking is obviously bad for you. It can cause weight gain, aging, dehydration, and a ton of health problems.
Have a non-alcoholic beer or gingerale if you're going to be a regular. Don't booze up every time.
Have a non-alcoholic beer or gingerale if you're going to be a regular. Don't booze up every time.
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