ChinazaVictoria
ChinazaVictoria

@love_Victoria17

9 Tweets 4 reads May 15, 2024
Do you know why a child raised by a single father, is considered a green flag, but a child raised by a single mother is considered a red flag until proven otherwise?
-If the man is a divorcee, he would raise his child with the knowledge of his flaws, he would teach the child his
mistakes, and teach the child how not to make those mistakes, and how to navigate his way out, if at all he ends up making that mistake. He would teach his child to not take pride in his errors, but to take the lessons and be better.
-If the woman is a divorcee, she would most
times, do the opposite of what a man would do. She would find it difficult to accept her mistakes, she would seek for ways to make a demon of her ex-husband.
Sometimes she might go the extramile to cut the child off from seeing the father, and lying to the child that he/she was
abandoned by his/her father. She would make sure that the child hates the father, and see her as the victim of an unfortunate marriage.
She will teach the child to take pride in her mistakes, and even make same mistakes she made. This is why most mothers who are divorcees,
most times assist their daughters in having broken homes.
-If the child is a product of a failed dating relationship, the father would ensure that his daughter does not make same mistakes her mother made with him. He would be very watchful and mindful of the boys who hang
around his daughter, and even the female friends she keep.
-The mother would most times do otherwise, her daughter will likely follow in her footsteps, this is why most first born daughters of irresponsible mothers end up just as irresponsible as their mothers.
-If the child
is a male. The father (if he is not a simp), will teach his son the ways of masculinity and patriarchal frame. He would teach his son the dynamics of male and female relationships, and the type of women his son should entangle himself with.
-A single mother who has a male child,
would very much do otherwise. She will teach her son to be effeminate, because she wants to teach him to "appreciate women better". She will end up raising a weak man, who will live all his life pleasing women, and pandering to women.
She will raise the kind of son, that ladies
wouldn't even want to get married to.
There are exceptions, very few exceptions, a wee drop in the ocean. And we know, that exceptions don't negate facts.

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