How a man can test a woman to see how easy she will be to frame.
The biggest issue with men in romance is picking the wrong woman. These are the men who are oblivious of red flags and end up marrying women and having children with Jezebels. This thread will breakdown how a man can test a woman early to see how much work will be required to frame her.
Before we get into testing a woman, let’s understand what the testing solves. What does a man need to test in a woman to reassure himself of his choice?
1. Respect for male authority
2. Promiscuity
Let’s take the first one.
How much respect can a man expect on dates with a woman in the beginning?
This one is tricky since a woman will be the main tester of respect in the early stages of a relationship. A man has little power and influence over a woman in the beginning. Why? Because the woman has little connection to the man until an emotional bond has been created. The respect for authority will be little in the beginning until a woman fears losing her investment. That fear of loss will be the driving force behind how a woman allows the man to influence her.
It is dumb when a man talks about female submission in the early stages with a woman. In fact, it is dumb to talk about female submission anytime with a woman. The better approach is to talk about leadership. A man should in the early stages mention that he desires to be the leader in the relationship and watch for the reaction of the woman. Most women will be happy to be with a man who sets the expectations early based on his role as leader. But if a man talks about desiring a woman’s submission, it will get a backlash which is normal. This is because submission cannot be achieved in a vacuum of power and is fundamentally dependent on the presentation and example of authority. Submission to authority is a reaction to leadership and that is why a man should lead the frame of thought with mentioning his role as lead. If a woman gives a man backlash to his desire for leadership without mentioning submission, it will signal a fear of surrender to his authority. A man can gauge if a woman has emotional baggage to male authority based on her reaction to his desire for leadership.
The key thing to remember is that all women secretly desire to submit to a man’s authority in sexual relationships but must be reassured by the silent example of the assumption of authority regardless of talk about hopes and dreams. Once a man secures an emotional attachment with a woman, he can then increase his power over her.
For a man to test a woman, he must give her opportunities to see how she bends to his will. A good way to do this is to make plans and see if she challenges these plans. Another is to have her become of service through errand tasks and see if she accepts. Does she ask you to fetch or do you ask her to fetch. Dominant woman will gain power by making men their bitches. They will say “Babe can you please…” which sets the frame for the man to be the errand boy and fetcher to their needs.
The next is sexual promiscuity.
This requires a man to be hidden in his intentions. Who gets more information, the man who judges or the man who doesn’t judge? A man should be nonjudgmental in the early stages and keep his judgment secret as a means to gain more information about the woman’s sexual history. He could ask how many relationships the woman has been in and whether she broke up with her exes and for what reasons.
Women are highly sensitive to revealing their sexual secrets and must be made to feel safe in revealing themselves. If a man plays the part of the nonjudgmental fun guy, he will be given more information about women than the man who makes his judgment known early. Never reveal the truth of intentions in gaining sexual secrets from a woman. Make it fun for her to reveal herself and she will say things she never revealed to anyone before. And do not reveal the truth even in breaking the connection.
The biggest issue with men in romance is picking the wrong woman. These are the men who are oblivious of red flags and end up marrying women and having children with Jezebels. This thread will breakdown how a man can test a woman early to see how much work will be required to frame her.
Before we get into testing a woman, let’s understand what the testing solves. What does a man need to test in a woman to reassure himself of his choice?
1. Respect for male authority
2. Promiscuity
Let’s take the first one.
How much respect can a man expect on dates with a woman in the beginning?
This one is tricky since a woman will be the main tester of respect in the early stages of a relationship. A man has little power and influence over a woman in the beginning. Why? Because the woman has little connection to the man until an emotional bond has been created. The respect for authority will be little in the beginning until a woman fears losing her investment. That fear of loss will be the driving force behind how a woman allows the man to influence her.
It is dumb when a man talks about female submission in the early stages with a woman. In fact, it is dumb to talk about female submission anytime with a woman. The better approach is to talk about leadership. A man should in the early stages mention that he desires to be the leader in the relationship and watch for the reaction of the woman. Most women will be happy to be with a man who sets the expectations early based on his role as leader. But if a man talks about desiring a woman’s submission, it will get a backlash which is normal. This is because submission cannot be achieved in a vacuum of power and is fundamentally dependent on the presentation and example of authority. Submission to authority is a reaction to leadership and that is why a man should lead the frame of thought with mentioning his role as lead. If a woman gives a man backlash to his desire for leadership without mentioning submission, it will signal a fear of surrender to his authority. A man can gauge if a woman has emotional baggage to male authority based on her reaction to his desire for leadership.
The key thing to remember is that all women secretly desire to submit to a man’s authority in sexual relationships but must be reassured by the silent example of the assumption of authority regardless of talk about hopes and dreams. Once a man secures an emotional attachment with a woman, he can then increase his power over her.
For a man to test a woman, he must give her opportunities to see how she bends to his will. A good way to do this is to make plans and see if she challenges these plans. Another is to have her become of service through errand tasks and see if she accepts. Does she ask you to fetch or do you ask her to fetch. Dominant woman will gain power by making men their bitches. They will say “Babe can you please…” which sets the frame for the man to be the errand boy and fetcher to their needs.
The next is sexual promiscuity.
This requires a man to be hidden in his intentions. Who gets more information, the man who judges or the man who doesn’t judge? A man should be nonjudgmental in the early stages and keep his judgment secret as a means to gain more information about the woman’s sexual history. He could ask how many relationships the woman has been in and whether she broke up with her exes and for what reasons.
Women are highly sensitive to revealing their sexual secrets and must be made to feel safe in revealing themselves. If a man plays the part of the nonjudgmental fun guy, he will be given more information about women than the man who makes his judgment known early. Never reveal the truth of intentions in gaining sexual secrets from a woman. Make it fun for her to reveal herself and she will say things she never revealed to anyone before. And do not reveal the truth even in breaking the connection.
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