The way men are wired to provide for the people they love, is the same way women please the men they love.
Note I used "please" for women, not "provide"
There's a nuance there.
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Note I used "please" for women, not "provide"
There's a nuance there.
You may check this THREAD đź”– out:
The reason many peddle the narrative that women don't love men is because they view women's love from male perspective & expect them to exhibit their own (men's own) characteristics of love which is to "provide".
So when women turn out differently, they misinterpret it with the myopic saying, "women don't love men" which in itself is defeatist.
First off, women are hypergamous. They all date up. If you're disposed to such tendency, you're going to have issues with providing— something expected of a superior being.
As such, all women suck at providing. She simply isn't wired to. It's against her nature.
She can only provide something as a means to an end—usually for short term & temporary pleasure.
She can only provide something as a means to an end—usually for short term & temporary pleasure.
For instance, a woman can't place her man on a salary & be happy about it.
A woman can't feed her husband & her kids for a month or two & be happy about it, even if she makes more money than her husband.
A woman can't feed her husband & her kids for a month or two & be happy about it, even if she makes more money than her husband.
She might feign it but someday the smokescreen will wear off & you'll see another version of her, the version made to punish a man who suck at his masculine role of "providing"
It's already against her nature to provide. She'll bite someday. It's only a matter of time.
It's already against her nature to provide. She'll bite someday. It's only a matter of time.
However, a woman can prepare a meal for her family, even with her own money.
See the difference?
She provided the money used for preparing the food which she'll use to please her husband & her kids.
See the difference?
She provided the money used for preparing the food which she'll use to please her husband & her kids.
The man on the otherhand, is built for both long-term & temporary provision. He can pay the rent & feed his family for decades & won't be arsed about it.
The woman cannot. She'll complain about her rent to others even if she's well paid & can afford it. That's partly why single rich ladies are frustrated & unhappy. They suck at providing, even for themselves.
They all want to be babied, spoiled, pampered & provided for.
"PLEASING not providing" is the thing she's made to do.
"PLEASING not providing" is the thing she's made to do.
This thread is to shed light on the concept of feminine love. It is totally different from men's.
Some argue it doesn't exist because they expect a woman to selflessly (& often unconditionally) love a man the way a man would a woman— a wild goose chase because we're different.
Some argue it doesn't exist because they expect a woman to selflessly (& often unconditionally) love a man the way a man would a woman— a wild goose chase because we're different.
In conclusion,
Gentlemen, WOMEN LOVE MEN.
Drop your lofty expectations & allow yourself to be loved (pleased) by a woman the best way she's wired to.
Gentlemen, WOMEN LOVE MEN.
Drop your lofty expectations & allow yourself to be loved (pleased) by a woman the best way she's wired to.
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