14 Ways to Destroy Women's Egos Instantly
-Female Psychology Thread-

1. No validation.
We're not giving compliments, we're not talking about her looks or how beautiful she is.
No, we're not doing that. You never put a woman on a pedestal, especially if she doesn't deserve it.
You cannot be out here giving her free compliments, boosting her ego. If you're already complaining that it's too high, just keep doing that, and you'll see it's increasing by the second.
Every guy is doing it, so whatever you are saying is not really going to hit, especially if you're talking about her looks and she's a beautiful girl.
A woman who doesn't value compliments is not going to value you saying that she's beautiful.
She hears it all the time. She already thinks she's the best. You're not helping your case.
The more you boost her, the less she will try to pursue you.

2. Look at other women.
Yes, she needs to know that your eyes are wide open and still seeing others.
Don't be too obvious and be like, "Damn, you see that ass?" I'm not saying go overboard like that, but when you're walking with her, you can look at other girls.
Right now, we're not trying to get you in a relationship with this girl.
She's not a good girl because her ego is way too much. She doesn't know her value; she thinks she's too much.
No, she has to come down. So, you can look at other women. Don't make comments, but you can look.

3. Never argue with her or get emotional.
Yes, the minute you argue, it means that you are too invested in it.
You're scared to lose her.
Women are going to know you're invested because if you don't care, you don't argue.
Don't raise your voice, don't yell, don't get emotional.
She has to be cooperative if she wants to engage with you because you set your boundaries and you're like, there is none of this drama around me.
No. If she wants to engage in those types of behaviors, she has to go home.
Tell her, "It's time for you to go. I don't engage in drama." Just think about it.
When you find yourself arguing with a woman, what is it usually about? It's because you are emotionally invested, and she knows that, and you do that back and forth, back and forth.

4. Never ask for commitment.
No, she needs to be the one asking for commitment and asking for the relationship, asking for you to be more involved.
She's the one. Because when she sees that, "Oh, he's too involved," all of a sudden she doesn't like you.
No. So, make sure you don't ask for commitment. You're cool with however things are right now.
You don't see any issues in that, because in a way, by you asking her to be your girl, you are showing her that you think she's the best you can get.
Yeah, I know, it's sick, but that's what it means in women's minds.

5. Don't get excited to know her.
If you are too eager to hang out and ask, "Oh, what about your life?" No.
Again, for this type of woman, you are boosting her ego.
She's like, "Ooh, I'm good today, I'm a god." No. Don't text with emojis because emojis show emotion.
So, no. When you text her, just ask her out. Yes, you do want to see her, you got to ask, but don't act like you're so excited.
"Oh my God, I can't wait to see you, can we go?" No. Act regular. "Hey, you want to go out? Yes or no?" Don't ask like that, obviously, but you know what I mean.

6. This one is a good one.
Don't be eager to have sex with her.
I am telling you, a woman who feels that you are thirsty and that you want sex at any cost, that's when she's going to play with you.
That's when she's going to use her sex as a weapon and as a monetary thing.
. "Oh, you want sex? Okay, buy me this. You want sex?
Take me there." No. You need to act like you don't give a damn about the pussy.
So, let's say you're at her house, you guys make out, and all of a sudden, she doesn't want to fuck, which is her right.
Be cool. "Oh, okay, no worries. Yeah, we can stop, it's not a problem." If you get mad, it shows like, ", you don't get sex in any way." So, the fact that you're not mad at her not wanting to give it up shows that actually you do get sex on a regular basis.
So, her or the next girl's sex is going to be available to you, so it's okay.
You don't want to give it to me? Keep it. And also, a woman who feels like you don't want to fuck her is going to be like, "Yo, what the fuck is wrong with him?
He needs to want to fuck me."
Well, you might hear the women who are going to say you're gay or something.
Don't even worry about them. We don't care. But another girl might be like, "Yo, why doesn't he want to fuck me?" And then she's going to try to throw it at you. So, it's a win-win.
You just got to act nonchalant with those types of women.

7. Dress nicely in public.
So, women are used to being looked at.
You know, I walk with my dude, usually people look at me, but if you're dressed nicely, you got some swag, you're stylish, all that, women are going to start looking at you.
Even dudes might look at you and be like, "Oh, your fit is good.
Wow." You know, you're taking the attention away from her.
It's going to mess her up because women are not used to that.
Her ego is going to be hurt. Now she's going to realize who she's with and she's going to try to secure her spot.
"Yeah, oh, everybody wants him. Oh, he's a hot commodity or something. Okay, I need that."
And now she's going to have to be nice to keep her spot.

8. Do not hit her up after you hit it.
Don't hit her up because what you're going to create is she's going to think like, "Well, you know, he's calling me again because my pussy was so good." No, I'm not calling.
You can tell her, "Hey, you can hit me up whenever you want."
You can say it like that, but don't be the one texting her. So, you're saying that when you leave the house, that's it. Don't text her after sex.
Don't, because now she's going to be
Like, “Wait, so was he just trying to fuck me, or wasn’t it good?
What is it?” She’s going to have to get to the bottom of it because it’s going to bother her, and she’s going to be the one texting and calling, “Hey, can we see each other again?” Yes. In that way, you are allowing her to pursue you.

9. This one is a tough one, but actually, you guys might like it.
Do not go down on her.
Don’t eat the pussy, no.
Because when you do that, you are actually validating her.
That’s something special.
A lot of guys don’t do it for all women.
So, if you do it to me, I must be special, right? A woman with a high ego is used to men wanting to please her, so you not doing that now is going to make her think, “Oh, I got to chase him. He needs to want to lick my pussy.”

10. Never show jealousy towards another man.
Why are you jealous if another man is doing something?
What does it mean? It means in your head, you are not confident in yourself.
You’re insecure and you think another man can steal her from you.
No, you don’t give a damn. She needs to realize that you’re the best, and that there’s no other man who's going to be better than you.
Therefore, she’s never going to leave you, and she’s going to be like, “Yeah, that’s why he’s so confident because he knows he’s the best,” and she knows you’re the best.
So right there, her ego is lower, lower, lower to the ground.

11. Never be too available for her.
Hopefully, you do have things going on, and when she wants to hang out, well, it’s not a good day today.
Sorry, maybe tomorrow or this weekend.
Don’t be too available.
Don’t drop everything you’re doing for her.
I tell you that all the time.

12. Never chase for validation.
You shouldn’t need validation.
I know it sounds good and women get validated left and right, but the moment you try to get validated by her, it’s going to be like, “Okay, he needs validation, meaning he doesn’t know his value.
He needs me to tell him about himself,” which is something you should know about yourself. So, it’s a no.

13. Put your goals above hers.
That shouldn’t even be something I have to say.
It’s a given.
Your goals are more important than hers. Yes.

14. Be random with your texting.
Even leave her on read.
Leave that on read.
They leave you on read all the time, right? So, she has to be kept on her toes at all times.
You text “Good morning” every morning, we know where the fuck you stand.
Not saying you want her to be your girlfriend, but you are highly, highly interested with all those good morning texts.
So, make sure you text her sporadically. You got to keep her wondering, “Does he like me?
Does he like me not? He texted me today, then I didn’t hear from him yesterday, then today again.” You know, she’s confused. You got to keep her confused because at this point, she’s like, “Okay, I got to figure it out. He must not like me enough.
I need to do something else for him to like me and want to be with me.” Right there, you have her pursuing you.
Don’t have a pattern. Sometimes you text her in the morning, sometimes at night, sometimes it’s nothing.