How to Actually Approach Beautiful Women
(A Step-by-Step Guide for Introverts and Beginners)
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(A Step-by-Step Guide for Introverts and Beginners)
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Before we start with the steps, there are a few things you need to understand about this process.
First, this isn’t about you and the girl yet; it’s about you and yourself.
You are your own biggest obstacle.
First, this isn’t about you and the girl yet; it’s about you and yourself.
You are your own biggest obstacle.
We’re trying to help you overcome your fear and do the right things.
What she thinks doesn’t matter at this stage.
It will matter later, but not now.
Right now, your goal is to master yourself, your emotions, and your fear, and to take action despite it.
What she thinks doesn’t matter at this stage.
It will matter later, but not now.
Right now, your goal is to master yourself, your emotions, and your fear, and to take action despite it.
Second, we’re going to desensitize you gradually.
We’ll start with something very easy, then something a little harder, and keep progressing.
Each step will be small so it doesn’t feel overwhelming.
It’s okay to start with something that feels too easy.
We’ll start with something very easy, then something a little harder, and keep progressing.
Each step will be small so it doesn’t feel overwhelming.
It’s okay to start with something that feels too easy.
It’s better to take gradual steps than to dive in too quickly and then quit because it’s too scary.
Be patient with yourself.
This is your journey.
Don’t compare yourself to anyone else.
Be proud of yourself for doing the right thing, no matter the result.
Be patient with yourself.
This is your journey.
Don’t compare yourself to anyone else.
Be proud of yourself for doing the right thing, no matter the result.
Step one: leave the house.
It sounds simple, but many guys don’t even do this.
They stay in their living rooms thinking about approaching women, but they never actually do it.
It sounds simple, but many guys don’t even do this.
They stay in their living rooms thinking about approaching women, but they never actually do it.
The more you put yourself in situations where you can meet women, the better.
So, the first step is to get out of your house and go to places where women are.
So, the first step is to get out of your house and go to places where women are.
Step two: this might be the most overlooked step in the process.
Walk over to the girl, say something - anything - and then you’re free to leave if you want.
The idea is to just make the approach.
It doesn’t have to go perfectly.
Walk over to the girl, say something - anything - and then you’re free to leave if you want.
The idea is to just make the approach.
It doesn’t have to go perfectly.
You don’t need to worry about your ego or self-worth.
Approaching is a physical act: just put one foot in front of the other and say something to get her attention.
Once you do that, you’ve made an approach.
Approaching is a physical act: just put one foot in front of the other and say something to get her attention.
Once you do that, you’ve made an approach.
Get comfortable with doing this in public, with interrupting a woman briefly.
It’s okay.
If it doesn’t go well, you can just leave.
No harm done.
It’s okay.
If it doesn’t go well, you can just leave.
No harm done.
A good way to start is by asking a question.
This gives you a reason to start the conversation.
Simple questions work well, like asking for directions: “Do you know where the nearest Coffee Shop is?”
She answers, and you can leave.
This gives you a reason to start the conversation.
Simple questions work well, like asking for directions: “Do you know where the nearest Coffee Shop is?”
She answers, and you can leave.
Even if she doesn’t answer, you’ve still done your part.
Other good questions include complimenting something she’s wearing: “I love that shirt. Where did you get it?” or asking for recommendations: “Do you know a good bar around here?”
Other good questions include complimenting something she’s wearing: “I love that shirt. Where did you get it?” or asking for recommendations: “Do you know a good bar around here?”
You can also ask her opinion on something current in the news.
Sometimes, a conversation might start from these questions.
If it does, great.
If not, that’s fine too.
You can walk away at any time.
Sometimes, a conversation might start from these questions.
If it does, great.
If not, that’s fine too.
You can walk away at any time.
Step three: now we’ll add to step two.
After you say something, add a compliment.
This can be as simple as saying, “Nice dress, where did you get it?” or “I love your look.”
This shows a bit more interest without being too forward.
After you say something, add a compliment.
This can be as simple as saying, “Nice dress, where did you get it?” or “I love your look.”
This shows a bit more interest without being too forward.
You can combine this with a question or just give the compliment.
If the conversation starts, great.
If not, you can still leave.
Remember, this is about desensitization.
Each step will get easier over time.
If the conversation starts, great.
If not, you can still leave.
Remember, this is about desensitization.
Each step will get easier over time.
Step four: we’re going to add another layer.
This time, introduce yourself.
When you introduce yourself, it adds a level of intimacy.
Before introductions, it’s just two strangers talking.
After introductions, there’s a sense of future interaction.
This time, introduce yourself.
When you introduce yourself, it adds a level of intimacy.
Before introductions, it’s just two strangers talking.
After introductions, there’s a sense of future interaction.
There are different ways to do this.
You can combine the question, compliment, and introduction.
Or just give the compliment and introduce yourself.
Or ask the question and introduce yourself.
You can combine the question, compliment, and introduction.
Or just give the compliment and introduce yourself.
Or ask the question and introduce yourself.
Introducing yourself alone is usually not the best approach.
The point is to add this introduction step to what you’re already doing.
The point is to add this introduction step to what you’re already doing.
Step five: after introducing yourself, add another topic to keep the conversation going.
This helps the girl get comfortable and start participating in the conversation.
This helps the girl get comfortable and start participating in the conversation.
If she’s unsure what to say next, you keep talking for another 10 to 30 seconds to give her time to join in.
This makes the interaction feel more natural.
If the conversation doesn’t go well, you can still leave.
This makes the interaction feel more natural.
If the conversation doesn’t go well, you can still leave.
But at this point, you’ve made a genuine attempt to connect with a stranger.
Finally, understand that this process is about taking action.
Don’t just read the thread and think about it.
Get out of your house and apply these steps.
Be patient with yourself and allow for gradual progression.
Don’t just read the thread and think about it.
Get out of your house and apply these steps.
Be patient with yourself and allow for gradual progression.
Each step builds on the previous one, making the process easier over time.
Use this foundation to improve further with other techniques.
Take action, keep progressing, and you’ll get there.
Use this foundation to improve further with other techniques.
Take action, keep progressing, and you’ll get there.
Thanks for reading!
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