What to Do When She Stops Calling and Texting: 10 Things
When she's not calling and texting back and you're confused and in your emotions, the part of you saying, βdon't do that, stop and slow down and take it easy,β is always right.
Listen to that voice telling you, you'reβ¦
When she's not calling and texting back and you're confused and in your emotions, the part of you saying, βdon't do that, stop and slow down and take it easy,β is always right.
Listen to that voice telling you, you'reβ¦
β¦doing too much and you're about to make yourself look and sound stupid.
That voice is trying to save you, dude.
Even if you don't know what to do instead, just listen to it and pay attention to what it's trying to tell you.
These 10 things I want to share with you will minimize the damage you may cause and maximize the chances that she'll call or text you back.
That voice is trying to save you, dude.
Even if you don't know what to do instead, just listen to it and pay attention to what it's trying to tell you.
These 10 things I want to share with you will minimize the damage you may cause and maximize the chances that she'll call or text you back.
1. Understand It Happens to All Men
It doesn't matter who you are, what you look like, how much money you have, how much women like you; eventually, and when you least expect it, some woman you're interested in and getting to know will quit calling and texting you back, disappear, and get sketchy.
Not only will she be acting sketchy, but the whole friendship and relationship will get sketchy.
It's not a problem. If you expect sketchy, or at least know it's a real possibility, you're less likely to freak out about it.
Like I said, at one point or another, every man will experience women blowing them off, ghosting them, and not calling and texting back.
Whatever you call it. It happens to the best of us.
There's no need to act like a victim, think you have it worse than other guys, or single yourself out.
It happens to all men, and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it's going to.
So, don't get too cocky and arrogant about it.
It doesn't matter who you are, what you look like, how much money you have, how much women like you; eventually, and when you least expect it, some woman you're interested in and getting to know will quit calling and texting you back, disappear, and get sketchy.
Not only will she be acting sketchy, but the whole friendship and relationship will get sketchy.
It's not a problem. If you expect sketchy, or at least know it's a real possibility, you're less likely to freak out about it.
Like I said, at one point or another, every man will experience women blowing them off, ghosting them, and not calling and texting back.
Whatever you call it. It happens to the best of us.
There's no need to act like a victim, think you have it worse than other guys, or single yourself out.
It happens to all men, and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it's going to.
So, don't get too cocky and arrogant about it.
2. When women are not calling and texting back, the first thing most guys do is freak out and obsess over why she's not calling and texting back.
Instead of wasting your time and energy and getting all emotional, seeking an answer that doesn't make a difference.
the correct mindset to have is: it doesn't matter why she's not calling or texting back.
Instead of wasting your time and energy and getting all emotional, seeking an answer that doesn't make a difference.
the correct mindset to have is: it doesn't matter why she's not calling or texting back.
3. Don't Give Away Personal Power
Here's something you need to remember for the rest of your life:
in any situation, the calmer you remain, the better it works out.
A major ingredient in attracting women and keeping them attracted is not giving your personal power away through freaking out, getting emotional, and crying about things you don't control.
When she's feeling any kind of attraction and getting a major brain boner for you, keeping your personal power for yourself magnifies and multiplies those intense feelings.
When you start getting emotional and acting mentally and emotionally weak because you don't understand why she's not calling and texting back, then you're throwing your personal power in the garbage.
If she actually sees or hears you acting this way, which you better make sure never happens, then you're killing the attraction, and there's nothing she can do about it.
Here's something you need to remember for the rest of your life:
in any situation, the calmer you remain, the better it works out.
A major ingredient in attracting women and keeping them attracted is not giving your personal power away through freaking out, getting emotional, and crying about things you don't control.
When she's feeling any kind of attraction and getting a major brain boner for you, keeping your personal power for yourself magnifies and multiplies those intense feelings.
When you start getting emotional and acting mentally and emotionally weak because you don't understand why she's not calling and texting back, then you're throwing your personal power in the garbage.
If she actually sees or hears you acting this way, which you better make sure never happens, then you're killing the attraction, and there's nothing she can do about it.
4. Avoid Jumping to Conclusions
It's never smart to make decisions or take any kind of action when you're emotional simply because you're less logical, less grounded, and more out of touch with reality.
You only want to come to conclusions when your mind is clear and you've had time to correctly and accurately analyze and process all of the information surrounding the situation.
If you haven't given yourself enough time to chill out and analyze and process all of the information, but you're still assuming and making snap decisions, then you're jumping to conclusions.
Most of the time, the conclusions you jump to are way off target.
It's never smart to make decisions or take any kind of action when you're emotional simply because you're less logical, less grounded, and more out of touch with reality.
You only want to come to conclusions when your mind is clear and you've had time to correctly and accurately analyze and process all of the information surrounding the situation.
If you haven't given yourself enough time to chill out and analyze and process all of the information, but you're still assuming and making snap decisions, then you're jumping to conclusions.
Most of the time, the conclusions you jump to are way off target.
5. Be "Whatever" About It
Your mindset needs to be whatever about her not calling and texting.
There's nothing I can do, so whatever.
I don't care. I'm not going to let this get to me and ruin my day, week, or month.
The more whatever and indifferent you become about it, the less you allow the situation to drain you of your personal power and the less you care and worry about it, the less needy you become about her.
The less you care and the less needy you are, the more attractive you'll become in her eyes, and the better you'll be able to handle the situation.
Your mindset needs to be whatever about her not calling and texting.
There's nothing I can do, so whatever.
I don't care. I'm not going to let this get to me and ruin my day, week, or month.
The more whatever and indifferent you become about it, the less you allow the situation to drain you of your personal power and the less you care and worry about it, the less needy you become about her.
The less you care and the less needy you are, the more attractive you'll become in her eyes, and the better you'll be able to handle the situation.
6. Take a Break
Women are weird and do things for all kinds of reasons you don't know about and will never understand.
Maybe she's on her period, has a yeast infection, her boss is stressing her out, she's tired, she's sick, or something else is going on with her that has nothing to do with you.
It doesn't mean she doesn't like you anymore or the attraction is gone. When it gets sketchy, don't let the weirdness get to you.
Don't make the weirdness your problem.
Take a break and a timeout.
Tell yourself, βthis is getting sketchy, but whatever.
I don't care. I need to just leave it alone and do something else.β
When you take a break and a timeout, you give her the space she needs to figure things out on her own and allow the stress and the weirdness to disappear.
Women are weird and do things for all kinds of reasons you don't know about and will never understand.
Maybe she's on her period, has a yeast infection, her boss is stressing her out, she's tired, she's sick, or something else is going on with her that has nothing to do with you.
It doesn't mean she doesn't like you anymore or the attraction is gone. When it gets sketchy, don't let the weirdness get to you.
Don't make the weirdness your problem.
Take a break and a timeout.
Tell yourself, βthis is getting sketchy, but whatever.
I don't care. I need to just leave it alone and do something else.β
When you take a break and a timeout, you give her the space she needs to figure things out on her own and allow the stress and the weirdness to disappear.
7. Don't Think or Assume the Worst
When she's not calling and texting back and you're not hearing from her, your mind instantly assumes the worst, and you're thinking about all the bad things that could be happening.
You're thinking she's not interested, she's seeing someone else, she has no more attraction for you, she's ignoring you, or you did something wrong, and it's your fault.
Your mind creates tons of scenarios of things that probably aren't happening.
You have no idea what's going on, and you're letting your mind run wild, assuming the worst.
It totally sucks, but instead of worrying and thinking about the worst things possible, the best thing to do is stop those thoughts and replace them with good, positive thoughts that make you feel better instead of worse.
When she's not calling and texting back and you're not hearing from her, your mind instantly assumes the worst, and you're thinking about all the bad things that could be happening.
You're thinking she's not interested, she's seeing someone else, she has no more attraction for you, she's ignoring you, or you did something wrong, and it's your fault.
Your mind creates tons of scenarios of things that probably aren't happening.
You have no idea what's going on, and you're letting your mind run wild, assuming the worst.
It totally sucks, but instead of worrying and thinking about the worst things possible, the best thing to do is stop those thoughts and replace them with good, positive thoughts that make you feel better instead of worse.
8. Don't Chase After Her
When women aren't calling and texting back, most guys think the only thing they can do to fix the situation is to start calling and texting more and keep calling and texting until they get a reply.
The logic is if they keep trying and showing persistence and determination, the woman will call and text back and everything will be fine.
But the truth is, when she's not calling and texting back and you keep calling and texting more and more, you're coming off as needy and desperate, and that makes you look weak and lame, killing whatever attraction she felt for you.
Chasing after her and doing more than you should and need to is going to make things worse and push her away even more.
The best thing you can do in this situation is nothing at all.
Don't chase after her, give her the time and space to miss you and to realize she hasn't heard from you.
The more she realizes she hasn't heard from you and you're not blowing up her phone, the more likely she is to call and text you back.
Instead of chasing after her, pull back and focus on yourself and other areas of your life that need attention.
When women aren't calling and texting back, most guys think the only thing they can do to fix the situation is to start calling and texting more and keep calling and texting until they get a reply.
The logic is if they keep trying and showing persistence and determination, the woman will call and text back and everything will be fine.
But the truth is, when she's not calling and texting back and you keep calling and texting more and more, you're coming off as needy and desperate, and that makes you look weak and lame, killing whatever attraction she felt for you.
Chasing after her and doing more than you should and need to is going to make things worse and push her away even more.
The best thing you can do in this situation is nothing at all.
Don't chase after her, give her the time and space to miss you and to realize she hasn't heard from you.
The more she realizes she hasn't heard from you and you're not blowing up her phone, the more likely she is to call and text you back.
Instead of chasing after her, pull back and focus on yourself and other areas of your life that need attention.
9. Don't Stalk Her Online
When she's not calling and texting back, and you're wondering what the hell is going on, the temptation to stalk her on social media can be overwhelming.
You want to check her Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Snapchat to see if she's online, posting, or talking to other guys.
While the urge to check up on her is normal, giving in to it can make you look and feel even more desperate and needy.
Resist the urge to stalk her online, and don't leave comments, likes, or messages on her posts and photos.
It's important to maintain your dignity and self-respect.
Stalking her online is only going to make you feel worse and more obsessed with her, which isn't healthy or attractive.
The best thing to do is to stay off her social media and focus on your own life and interests.
When she's not calling and texting back, and you're wondering what the hell is going on, the temptation to stalk her on social media can be overwhelming.
You want to check her Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Snapchat to see if she's online, posting, or talking to other guys.
While the urge to check up on her is normal, giving in to it can make you look and feel even more desperate and needy.
Resist the urge to stalk her online, and don't leave comments, likes, or messages on her posts and photos.
It's important to maintain your dignity and self-respect.
Stalking her online is only going to make you feel worse and more obsessed with her, which isn't healthy or attractive.
The best thing to do is to stay off her social media and focus on your own life and interests.
10. Keep Yourself Busy
When she's not calling and texting back, and you're sitting around waiting for her to respond, it's easy to get stuck in your head and become consumed by negative thoughts and emotions.
The best way to combat this is to keep yourself busy and distracted.
Engage in activities you enjoy, spend time with friends and family, focus on your hobbies, work, and personal goals.
The more you keep yourself occupied, the less time you'll have to worry about her not calling and texting back.
Keeping yourself busy will also help you maintain your personal power and self-confidence, making you more attractive in her eyes.
When she's not calling and texting back, and you're sitting around waiting for her to respond, it's easy to get stuck in your head and become consumed by negative thoughts and emotions.
The best way to combat this is to keep yourself busy and distracted.
Engage in activities you enjoy, spend time with friends and family, focus on your hobbies, work, and personal goals.
The more you keep yourself occupied, the less time you'll have to worry about her not calling and texting back.
Keeping yourself busy will also help you maintain your personal power and self-confidence, making you more attractive in her eyes.
By following these steps, you can effectively handle the situation when a woman stops calling and texting back.
Stay calm, confident, and focused on yourself, and remember that your happiness and self-worth are not dependent on her actions.
The more you maintain your personal power and self-respect, the more attractive and successful you'll be in your relationships.
Stay calm, confident, and focused on yourself, and remember that your happiness and self-worth are not dependent on her actions.
The more you maintain your personal power and self-respect, the more attractive and successful you'll be in your relationships.
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