Women,
Commitment is not men's problem;
Finding a woman worthy of commitment is.
If you're worthy, you'll enjoy your pick of men willing to commit.
Let us discuss women who are worthy of men's commitment:
Commitment is not men's problem;
Finding a woman worthy of commitment is.
If you're worthy, you'll enjoy your pick of men willing to commit.
Let us discuss women who are worthy of men's commitment:
1. Feminine and sweet.
Being gentle and sweet is a huge green flag in girls.
It sounds very simple but this has become rare nowadays.
Why? When a girl grows up, she constantly gets told to become a boss babe and that she doesn't need a man.
Feminism is teaching women to be hostile towards men.
They have this idea that femininity is a weakness.
When you find a girl that does not listen to the feminist agenda and is sweet by nature, that is a green flag.
Being gentle and sweet is a huge green flag in girls.
It sounds very simple but this has become rare nowadays.
Why? When a girl grows up, she constantly gets told to become a boss babe and that she doesn't need a man.
Feminism is teaching women to be hostile towards men.
They have this idea that femininity is a weakness.
When you find a girl that does not listen to the feminist agenda and is sweet by nature, that is a green flag.
2. Respect.
Respect is the most important Green flag to look out for in a woman.
A woman who respects you will treat you like a king. She'll value your opinion, your time, efforts & feelings.
A woman who respects you will be able to approach conflicts differently. She'll be able to express herself calmly & respectfully. She'll want to work together in finding solution to the issue, instead of adding to it.
This is essential because conflicts are bound to occur in every relationship.
So it's a huge relief to know that when they arise, your woman is less likely to blow them out of proportion because she holds you in high esteem.
Respect is the most important Green flag to look out for in a woman.
A woman who respects you will treat you like a king. She'll value your opinion, your time, efforts & feelings.
A woman who respects you will be able to approach conflicts differently. She'll be able to express herself calmly & respectfully. She'll want to work together in finding solution to the issue, instead of adding to it.
This is essential because conflicts are bound to occur in every relationship.
So it's a huge relief to know that when they arise, your woman is less likely to blow them out of proportion because she holds you in high esteem.
3. Stays off social media.
Limiting social media use is a good thing for anyone but it's a green flag specifically for women.
Why?
Women are followers by nature.
They are not designed to dominate and lead.
This means they will always follow something or someone, whether it's the influence of a man or social media.
Feminists will claim they don't follow anyone, not a man nor God himself.
What they don't realize is that they are simply following all of society's trends, constantly scrolling and following influencers with and only fans.
The next thing that happens is that she will start comparing herself with other people online and she will start comparing you with other celebrities too, leaving her in a constant state of bitterness and envy.
Here is the reality.
When a woman limits the use of social media, that leaves room for her to follow a man's lead.
This is a big green flag.
Limiting social media use is a good thing for anyone but it's a green flag specifically for women.
Why?
Women are followers by nature.
They are not designed to dominate and lead.
This means they will always follow something or someone, whether it's the influence of a man or social media.
Feminists will claim they don't follow anyone, not a man nor God himself.
What they don't realize is that they are simply following all of society's trends, constantly scrolling and following influencers with and only fans.
The next thing that happens is that she will start comparing herself with other people online and she will start comparing you with other celebrities too, leaving her in a constant state of bitterness and envy.
Here is the reality.
When a woman limits the use of social media, that leaves room for her to follow a man's lead.
This is a big green flag.
4. Appreciation
A woman that can show gratitude and appreciation is a huge green flag because it demonstrates that she's appreciative of the effort and care that her man puts into the relationship.
This shows her man that she's not taking him for granted and she values the positive attributes that he brings to her life.
Humbleness is associated with gratefulness and humbleness is a very attractive trait because it demonstrates emotional maturity and willingness to learn and grow.
When a woman shows gratitude, she not only sets an example for her partner to do the same, but she also sets the tone of the relationship.
People underestimate the power that a simple I appreciate you can carry, but it means the world to a man that never hears it.
So, if she understands this simple yet highly underestimated component, she's a keeper.
A woman that can show gratitude and appreciation is a huge green flag because it demonstrates that she's appreciative of the effort and care that her man puts into the relationship.
This shows her man that she's not taking him for granted and she values the positive attributes that he brings to her life.
Humbleness is associated with gratefulness and humbleness is a very attractive trait because it demonstrates emotional maturity and willingness to learn and grow.
When a woman shows gratitude, she not only sets an example for her partner to do the same, but she also sets the tone of the relationship.
People underestimate the power that a simple I appreciate you can carry, but it means the world to a man that never hears it.
So, if she understands this simple yet highly underestimated component, she's a keeper.
5. Nurturing.
Another ability women are gifted with is the ability to heal.
They are caring and nurturing by nature.
In the modern world, girls are convinced this is a weakness and it gets shamed out of them.
Instead, they are encouraged to chase a career and compete with men.
This is why you will hear girls say things like, he can cook his own meals or I don't need to clean, he can do that himself.
Listen, if a girl likes you, she will want to take care of you.
She would love to cook for you and take care of you when you are sick.
It is a healing energy that is good for you, especially if you are a masculine man that is on the grind.
Imagine coming home after a hard day of work and your girl is waiting for you with nothing but positive energy.
She gives you a massage and has prepared a warm meal.
It wouldn't take long before you are ready to get back on the grind.
You see, men and women are better together than they are apart, but only if they understand their God-given roles.
Another ability women are gifted with is the ability to heal.
They are caring and nurturing by nature.
In the modern world, girls are convinced this is a weakness and it gets shamed out of them.
Instead, they are encouraged to chase a career and compete with men.
This is why you will hear girls say things like, he can cook his own meals or I don't need to clean, he can do that himself.
Listen, if a girl likes you, she will want to take care of you.
She would love to cook for you and take care of you when you are sick.
It is a healing energy that is good for you, especially if you are a masculine man that is on the grind.
Imagine coming home after a hard day of work and your girl is waiting for you with nothing but positive energy.
She gives you a massage and has prepared a warm meal.
It wouldn't take long before you are ready to get back on the grind.
You see, men and women are better together than they are apart, but only if they understand their God-given roles.
6. Loyal.
A loyal woman is one who's faithful, committed, and trustworthy.
She will not cheat on you or betray you. She will always have your back no matter what.
When you find a woman who's loyal, you can rest assured that she will be there for you through thick and thin.
She will be your ride or die and she will never let you down.
Loyalty brings a high degree of peace of mind to any relationship.
Knowing that your woman is loyal and committed can greatly reduce insecurities, doubts, and fears.
Since the time is not being spent worrying about these things, more time is freed up to allow both the man and the woman to focus on enjoying and nurturing the relationship as individuals, as well as enjoying activities that actually contribute to the relationship building.
A loyal woman is one who's faithful, committed, and trustworthy.
She will not cheat on you or betray you. She will always have your back no matter what.
When you find a woman who's loyal, you can rest assured that she will be there for you through thick and thin.
She will be your ride or die and she will never let you down.
Loyalty brings a high degree of peace of mind to any relationship.
Knowing that your woman is loyal and committed can greatly reduce insecurities, doubts, and fears.
Since the time is not being spent worrying about these things, more time is freed up to allow both the man and the woman to focus on enjoying and nurturing the relationship as individuals, as well as enjoying activities that actually contribute to the relationship building.
7. Low body count.
We live in times where girls think giving their body away is liberation. It is disgusting.
Research has shown that the more partners a woman has had, the harder it becomes for her to pair bond.
Repeated sexual encounters with multiple partners rewires her brain.
The truth is that we don't even need the research to know this.
If you could choose between a woman that has little to no sexual past at all or one that has been with 50 different men, you already know which one you would choose.
The cleaner her past, the greener the flag.
We live in times where girls think giving their body away is liberation. It is disgusting.
Research has shown that the more partners a woman has had, the harder it becomes for her to pair bond.
Repeated sexual encounters with multiple partners rewires her brain.
The truth is that we don't even need the research to know this.
If you could choose between a woman that has little to no sexual past at all or one that has been with 50 different men, you already know which one you would choose.
The cleaner her past, the greener the flag.
8. High emotional intelligence.
A woman with high emotional intelligence can accurately recognize and understand her own emotions as well as those of others.
She can pick up on subtle emotional clues and respond to them appropriately.
She is also able to value logic over emotions when the circumstance calls for it.
A woman who values logic is an invaluable asset because she possesses the capability to make decisions based on reason and not just her feelings.
This means she's less likely to be swayed by societal pressure and emotional whims that can cause unnecessary drama and stress in a relationship.
This trait also shows that she's highly capable of critical thinking and can approach problems and conflicts with a calm and calculated mindset.
She won't let her emotions get in the way of making rational decisions that benefit both her and you.
A woman with high emotional intelligence can accurately recognize and understand her own emotions as well as those of others.
She can pick up on subtle emotional clues and respond to them appropriately.
She is also able to value logic over emotions when the circumstance calls for it.
A woman who values logic is an invaluable asset because she possesses the capability to make decisions based on reason and not just her feelings.
This means she's less likely to be swayed by societal pressure and emotional whims that can cause unnecessary drama and stress in a relationship.
This trait also shows that she's highly capable of critical thinking and can approach problems and conflicts with a calm and calculated mindset.
She won't let her emotions get in the way of making rational decisions that benefit both her and you.
9. She respects her father.
Look at the way her mother treats her father.
Does she treat him like Homer Simpson or does she have love, respect and admiration for him?
This is important because that is what she grew up around.
If she never saw her mother love and respect her father, she most likely doesn't know how to respect a man herself.
And if she witnessed her mother always yelling at or disrespecting her father, that is even worse.
We all get conditioned a certain way during our upbringing and it is very difficult to break free from that conditioning. It takes time, effort and awareness to do so.
Now, I know the world is far from perfect and not everyone comes from a perfect household, but if your girl does come from a loving household and she respects her own father, that is a big green flag.
Look at the way her mother treats her father.
Does she treat him like Homer Simpson or does she have love, respect and admiration for him?
This is important because that is what she grew up around.
If she never saw her mother love and respect her father, she most likely doesn't know how to respect a man herself.
And if she witnessed her mother always yelling at or disrespecting her father, that is even worse.
We all get conditioned a certain way during our upbringing and it is very difficult to break free from that conditioning. It takes time, effort and awareness to do so.
Now, I know the world is far from perfect and not everyone comes from a perfect household, but if your girl does come from a loving household and she respects her own father, that is a big green flag.
10. She respects boundaries.
This is a huge one. A woman who respects your boundaries is a huge green flag.
It shows that she understands the importance of individuality and autonomy, and she's not looking to control or manipulate you.
In turn, this helps establish trust in the relationship because as a man, you know that she's not going to push you beyond your comfort zone or violate your personal space, and that's incredibly important in any relationship.
By simply respecting your boundaries as a man, she provides you with the emotional space and freedom to pursue personal growth and self-discovery for your own well-being, and that in and of itself establishes great trust.
This makes you more likely to feel like that you can let your guard down and be more vulnerable with her, all while having a high degree of security and peace of mind, which is priceless.
This is a huge one. A woman who respects your boundaries is a huge green flag.
It shows that she understands the importance of individuality and autonomy, and she's not looking to control or manipulate you.
In turn, this helps establish trust in the relationship because as a man, you know that she's not going to push you beyond your comfort zone or violate your personal space, and that's incredibly important in any relationship.
By simply respecting your boundaries as a man, she provides you with the emotional space and freedom to pursue personal growth and self-discovery for your own well-being, and that in and of itself establishes great trust.
This makes you more likely to feel like that you can let your guard down and be more vulnerable with her, all while having a high degree of security and peace of mind, which is priceless.
While it's recommended to raise your standards on the choice of women to marry, you must understand there's no perfect woman out there.
No woman will completely satisfy all you want in a woman.
So the goal is to choose a woman who at least satisfies these most important qualities that guarantee a successful marriage.
Look, at the end of the day, no woman is perfect and I'm not saying that she has to encompass every single one of these, but if you find a woman who encompasses the majority of these traits and characteristics, don't let her go.
Hold on to her because she is an invaluable asset to your life.
So until next time, I'll see you guys later. Bye.
No woman will completely satisfy all you want in a woman.
So the goal is to choose a woman who at least satisfies these most important qualities that guarantee a successful marriage.
Look, at the end of the day, no woman is perfect and I'm not saying that she has to encompass every single one of these, but if you find a woman who encompasses the majority of these traits and characteristics, don't let her go.
Hold on to her because she is an invaluable asset to your life.
So until next time, I'll see you guys later. Bye.
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