Why You're Great at Getting Women, But Terrible At Keeping Them (The Hidden Weakness You Can't See)
Attracting women and keeping women are two completely different skillsets
Keep reading to fix your blind spot with the latter in just 7 lessons.
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Attracting women and keeping women are two completely different skillsets
Keep reading to fix your blind spot with the latter in just 7 lessons.
Let's dive in.
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1. You’re falling into the Comfort Trap without even realizing it.
After the initial chase, most guys start to relax—they get comfortable.
Guess what happens when you do that?
Your edge fades.
And she starts to think about moving on.
After the initial chase, most guys start to relax—they get comfortable.
Guess what happens when you do that?
Your edge fades.
And she starts to think about moving on.
2. Lack of Emotional Leadership.
When you get too comfortable, you stop leading.
Here’s the kicker:
Women need to feel your strength, not just in the beginning, but all the time.
When you get too comfortable, you stop leading.
Here’s the kicker:
Women need to feel your strength, not just in the beginning, but all the time.
If you stop taking the lead emotionally, she’ll subconsciously doubt your ability to handle the deeper layers of the relationship.
That doubt kills her attraction.
That doubt kills her attraction.
3. You’re losing the polarity and sexual tension that hooked her.
When you first met her, your masculine energy was magnetic.
But once you get close, a lot of guys think being more available, more emotional, or more involved is what keeps her.
Nope.
When you first met her, your masculine energy was magnetic.
But once you get close, a lot of guys think being more available, more emotional, or more involved is what keeps her.
Nope.
She needs that balance of closeness and distance.
Without it, the sexual spark dies.
Without it, the sexual spark dies.
4. Over-validating the relationship kills desire.
The moment you over-invest in her, you're signaling one thing:
Neediness.
She can smell it from a mile away, and it’s a major turn-off.
The moment you over-invest in her, you're signaling one thing:
Neediness.
She can smell it from a mile away, and it’s a major turn-off.
Neediness tips the balance of power—and women pull away fast when they feel they’re in the dominant position emotionally.
5. Women fall for who you are, not what you do.
It’s not about doing more, fixing things, or proving your worth.
Keeping a woman is about embodying a mindset of abundance.
It’s not about doing more, fixing things, or proving your worth.
Keeping a woman is about embodying a mindset of abundance.
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