Fetishizing older women is the most common “conciliation” to the sexual neo-morality. It’s a way to still express male sexuality “unproblematically,” by inverting the dynamic with the man as the “victim.” MeToo framed all sex as victimization, and this is the end result.

See also: sexualizing muscular or visually masculine women, “step on me,” etc.
All ways to cope with widespread cultural hatred of male sexuality while avoiding the Eye of Sauron, which after a decade of this propaganda exists more often than not within oneself.

The defining feature of post-2010s culture is a vitriolic hatred of maleness and male sexuality, to an extent that almost no one has comes to terms with
Genuinely unprecedented, and resulting in all kinds of disturbing downstream effects