How to talk to women.
Lot of guys have a hard time talking to women. They stumble and stutter when they have to talk to them. There are a couple basics to being good talking to women. Read on.
1. Read books
This one is not obvious. The more a man reads, the more interesting his thoughts and the more subject matters he can discuss. Readers make good conversationalists.
2. Ask questions but don’t interview
The key to asking questions is to be an active listener. This means let a woman answer a question and “dig deeper” into same topic without asking a question that changes topic. Dig deeper and don’t dig another hole.
3. Let a woman get nervous
Feminine frame guys will try to fill space by “saving a woman” from silence and awkward moments. But if a man waits five seconds after a woman answers, she will usually keep talking. Don’t save her.
4. Don’t let awkward silence fall into more than five seconds
Conversation needs to feel easy and comfortable. This means that a man should be answering and questioning before the dreaded awkward silence begins. Remember, five seconds is fine but 10, 20 or 30 seconds might become awkward.
5. Lead conversation
A man needs to be the one picking topics and directing the discussion. He needs to be actively listening and engaging a woman on the subject matter. This means that all awkward silences is a man’s fault. He needs to lead and direct conversation.
Lot of guys have a hard time talking to women. They stumble and stutter when they have to talk to them. There are a couple basics to being good talking to women. Read on.
1. Read books
This one is not obvious. The more a man reads, the more interesting his thoughts and the more subject matters he can discuss. Readers make good conversationalists.
2. Ask questions but don’t interview
The key to asking questions is to be an active listener. This means let a woman answer a question and “dig deeper” into same topic without asking a question that changes topic. Dig deeper and don’t dig another hole.
3. Let a woman get nervous
Feminine frame guys will try to fill space by “saving a woman” from silence and awkward moments. But if a man waits five seconds after a woman answers, she will usually keep talking. Don’t save her.
4. Don’t let awkward silence fall into more than five seconds
Conversation needs to feel easy and comfortable. This means that a man should be answering and questioning before the dreaded awkward silence begins. Remember, five seconds is fine but 10, 20 or 30 seconds might become awkward.
5. Lead conversation
A man needs to be the one picking topics and directing the discussion. He needs to be actively listening and engaging a woman on the subject matter. This means that all awkward silences is a man’s fault. He needs to lead and direct conversation.
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