How to kill your relationship in 9 easy steps.
(OR do the opposite).
(OR do the opposite).
1. Never share credit -
OR
give the credit away
Who cares! Happy life>>> everything else.
Bonus points: brag to their family without them knowing, it will get back to them and they will GLOW.
OR
give the credit away
Who cares! Happy life>>> everything else.
Bonus points: brag to their family without them knowing, it will get back to them and they will GLOW.
2. Count every action you both do -
OR
don't be picky, don't be petty.
Relationships should not be a “this for that” situation, if it is you are with the wrong human.
OR
don't be picky, don't be petty.
Relationships should not be a “this for that” situation, if it is you are with the wrong human.
3. Make them feel unsafe -
OR
Make them feel safe.
Make them feel loved, supported, understood, and SEEN.
If someone feels safe with you they will open up and be honest with you.
Honest communication fixes all other issues.
OR
Make them feel safe.
Make them feel loved, supported, understood, and SEEN.
If someone feels safe with you they will open up and be honest with you.
Honest communication fixes all other issues.
4. Argue every little thing -
OR
Let the small stuff go.
You need boundaries, but if you are with the right person you shouldn't be defending them all the time.
Agree to disagree and smile.
Move on quickly.
OR
Let the small stuff go.
You need boundaries, but if you are with the right person you shouldn't be defending them all the time.
Agree to disagree and smile.
Move on quickly.
5. Push their buttons/use trauma -
OR
DONT.
This seems pretty obvious, just don't do it.
Don’t claim you are joking or being funny.
If they don’t take it that way it is abusive and manipulative.
OR
DONT.
This seems pretty obvious, just don't do it.
Don’t claim you are joking or being funny.
If they don’t take it that way it is abusive and manipulative.
6. Get out of shape -
OR
DONT.
They want to be proud of all aspects of you.
And you want to be around a long time hopefully.
Attraction is real as well, just saying.
OR
DONT.
They want to be proud of all aspects of you.
And you want to be around a long time hopefully.
Attraction is real as well, just saying.
7. Take them for granted -
OR
Tell them every day that you are grateful for them & why.
We all have taken loved ones for granted.
It's so easy to do. We adapt to our surroundings.
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Tell them every day that you are grateful for them & why.
We all have taken loved ones for granted.
It's so easy to do. We adapt to our surroundings.
8. Never have fun together-
OR
Plan an event. It doesn't have to be huge.
Just make the effort.
If you share an interest, great! If not alternate.
Bonus: Novel events also keep you present & in the moment which always leads to happiness.
OR
Plan an event. It doesn't have to be huge.
Just make the effort.
If you share an interest, great! If not alternate.
Bonus: Novel events also keep you present & in the moment which always leads to happiness.
9. Tell them nothing is good enough -
OR
Celebrate what they did correctly NOW, and bring up other issues LATER.
If they try to do something and you say:
"Yes but” or “this is still an issue"
You will crush their spirit.
OR
Celebrate what they did correctly NOW, and bring up other issues LATER.
If they try to do something and you say:
"Yes but” or “this is still an issue"
You will crush their spirit.
10. Bonus- Learn their “LOVE LANGUAGE”
Knowing you and your partner's love language can literally save your relationship OR take it to the next level.
This thread is a full education with links to the free quiz.
Knowing you and your partner's love language can literally save your relationship OR take it to the next level.
This thread is a full education with links to the free quiz.
TLDR
How to NOT destroy your relationship
1. Give them the credit
2. Don’t be petty
3. Make them feel safe
4. Don’t be picky
5. Don’t push buttons
6. Stay in shape
7. Don’t take them for granted
8. Have fun
9. Celebrate success
10. Learn your love languages
How to NOT destroy your relationship
1. Give them the credit
2. Don’t be petty
3. Make them feel safe
4. Don’t be picky
5. Don’t push buttons
6. Stay in shape
7. Don’t take them for granted
8. Have fun
9. Celebrate success
10. Learn your love languages
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